my friends have alot of drama and so do i but im trying to stay away but when my friendsd need help i just have to help them can anyone help me stay away from it all?....ANY TIPS?
2007-01-30 11:23:20 · 2 answers · asked by Sabrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
good for you for wanting to get away from this! I totally hear you on this one. I used to be in a very similar situation. The only thing that i can tell you is that the drama is always going to be there. You can't change people, unfortunately. However you can change the way you handle situations. The best thing to do is to choose your battles. You can't dwell on things that you have no control over, so if you can relinquish a little control, your life will be a lot easier.
As far as your friends are concerned, listen but don't offer up too much of an opinion because that gets you involved in their "drama". Sometimes people just want someone to listen to them. Remember, you can only help them as much as they want to help themselves. Don't allow them to make you make their decisions. Stay strong!
I hope this helps.
2007-01-30 12:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by yoebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple: stay away from the people who get caught up in the drama and stay away from the people who cause it
2007-01-30 19:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋