Is there anyway to test your husband/wife on their lying..What i mean is there some way u can question them and know their lying about it.
2007-01-30 11:15:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We can never be sure that someone's lying. Some things to look for are fidgeting, lack of eye contact, pupils contracting, darting eyes, giving too much information, nervous laughter, throat clearing are a few things to look for.
2007-01-30 11:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not with 100% accuracy. The only way to know is to hire a professional to follow them etc.
Others have mentioned body language etc which at best give hints, possibilities...the odds that these techniques alone would give you 100% assurance that the person is lying is laughable.
People are far too complex to depend on these alone & to judge the person in question based on their physical reactions alone.
After working with the police for many years I've seen my share of so called liars who were anything but.
2007-01-30 19:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by D T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some really good answers here.
I would say it is possible to know that someone is lying to you. My best friend is a detective with the Dallas PD and I believe him when he says he can ferret out liars in interview (interrogation).
You could also hire a PI and have him followed.
You can try a lie detector machine but they have spotty records at best (hence their inadmissibility in court).
More importantly, why are you sticking around in this marriage/relationship? Trust is the foundation and you have none, zero zip.
Get out...live a better life for yourself with a partner who will not leave you in doubt.
2007-01-30 19:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I wish I knew. My hubby is a liar by nature and I don't know when he's lying or telling the truth. I don't think he does either.
2007-01-30 19:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays many women are against marriage. Why?
Because women realize its not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
2007-01-30 19:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no effective way to know if your partner is cheating on you....But you could check on their tolerance rating!...If they are lying, they'll answer anything quick and/or yelling...They turn more intolerant and less sensitive about what you think or feel...
2007-01-30 19:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetmoonshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will not look you in the eyes when lying. or they will stammer or pause. looking down or to the right is also a sign.
2007-01-30 19:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can tell as time goes by. Depends on how long you've been married and how well you pay attention.
2007-01-30 19:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people who lie are very defensive about their answers and usually your gut instinct is pretty much accurate ....atleast in any honesty dilemas in my marriage.
2007-01-30 19:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by hamera7925 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish they were a way like a recorder hid
2007-02-03 15:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋