i used to like this guy like not only did i have a crush on him but i was obbessed. ! he never talked to me after he found out my boycrazy friend told him however all of last year i still liked him. until summer brake than it only took a couple of weeks to decide i didnt like anyone. than when i came back to school this year he looks at me the same way he did last year. which isent the same way any guy looks at just any girl. i'm worried if he still likes me and if so which i highly doubt he will do this but IF he does get me anything for valentines day what should i do i mean i still like him as a friend if he would ever talk to me.
2007-01-30 11:05:58 · 33 answers · asked by Monkey 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
I was pretty boycrazy myself. You say he liked you? And you liked him? Then the reason he quit talking to you is because he was embarressed that you found out he liked you. You sound young and at that age, kids aren't so confident. If he decides to get you something for Valentine's Day, GREAT! If not, still try and talk to him and try and find out why he's ignoring you. Maybe he just wants things to go back to the way they were before. I also hate to say this...but maybe he didn't feel the same why you did about him and he felt that you only talked to him because you liked him. If he didn't feel the same as you, then he wanted to get some breathing room and back off because he doesn't want the pressure of worrying about going out with him all the time.
2007-01-30 11:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soinds like you like him, but don't really know it.
If he gives you heart-shaped box of choclates?
Seems more like a fantasy.
Actually, that same EXACT thing happened to me, now that I think about it!
My friend ran off and told this guy I was in love with him. You know what he said? He said,"eww! Emma??" I would like to point out that I liked someone else a t that point, and was almost completely over him. And that also, if he's gonna be all mean and stuff like that, then he must be some stupid selfish boy, who thinks he's a god or something. Yeah, so then I actulla started thinking,"DO I like him?" Right now I don't (and it was over summer break that I decided this too!) Problem solved! Exept for now I like this other guy that I supposedy hate, but he started being niceto me.
Anyway, it does seem kind of like a fantasy thing, but you just don't know it.
Your saying,"What if?" just to convince yourself. Don't get your hopes up. If you do, you'll be broken, and if he does, then be happy.
First choose whether you like him or not (which you think you already know) then if you don't just be all like,"Yeah, uh, can we talk for a sec?" And once your talking see if he says anything, then if he doesn't leyt him down easy.
If you DO like him, you know what to do! And if you don't you'll know then.
2007-01-30 11:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the grand scheme of things this hardly seems significant. If he gives you a gift he gives you a gift. Sure it may be awkward, but accept it nonetheless, don't treat him like you're interested is all you have to do, but remember to be polite, let him down easy. If you let him shatter on the ground you can be commonly classified as a *****. However, you are in no way obligated to do anything social with this boy other than gratefully accept his gift. Whether he likes you or not doesn't matter, all that matters is if YOU like or do not like HIM. As this is America, he cannot select you as his bride should the desire arise, you have control over your end of the relationship. Plus, free candy right?
2007-01-30 11:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Manga M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, thanks, but he could be more creative! Anyone can buy a box of chocolates, but it's true romance when someone goes out of their way. A guy doesn't even have to go out of his way, or spend any money, just give you something sentimental. Anyway..... you jabbered a little bit so it's hard to understand the true intent of your question. If you don't like him, be mature and thank him for the gift but tell him you don't feel the same way anymore. If he doesn't want to give it to you, oh well, go buy one yourself for $1.50 at WalMart.
2007-01-30 11:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't take the box if he gives you anything...Sounds like you need space and he only wants a school girlfriend.Its the age that you'll are in.Grow older and the right Valentine will give you a huge box of candy,and you'll love it....
2007-01-31 05:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!?
take a breath and re-read what you wrote because you can't write worth a heart shaped box of chocolates.
Just show him this and he'll be scared off for good.
p.s. I seriously doubt he plans on getting you anything anyways you're pretty much just being a drama self centered queen.
get over yourself kid!
2007-01-30 11:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you're saying he wouldn't glance your way, now he's saying he likes you. I wouldn't take the chocolates at all. I'd say
"If I wasn't good for you then I'm certainly not going to be good for you now. Get a life" shove the chocolates into his chest and walk away.
2007-01-30 11:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a boy's pov i think you should take the gift if he gives you, but wait thats only if you like him more than a friend bcuz if u accept the gift thats like giving him the green light to go out with you. but if you dont like him more than just a friend just tell him that you only like him as a friend and reject the gift if his intensions was to get with you, if it was not hey what the heck thank the damn chocolates...
2007-01-30 11:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by kerron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Thank you." As far as the looking at you, he may have something that he's bursting to say and feel a bit shy about just saying it. Just be honest with him. Honesty is still the best policy.
2007-01-30 11:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by dressed_2_kill_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get. Forrest Gump.
2007-01-30 11:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by odacrem69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋