I have this huge decision to make. I have a boyfriend its been 1year and 3 months and things aren't going so well. I tryed to break up once and he didn't let me. I love him but there's this problem. I think I'm falling for this other guy. He likes me (the other guy) and he is really nice + he races pro (motocross) a HUGE turn on in my opinion lol. And he's going away in a week to Florida (24h from where I live) to go at this motocross school until this summer and I'm wondering if I should tell him sumthing and what and I don't know what to do about my boyfriend cause I know it would break his heart if I break up with him. HELP ME plz..And I'm also only 16 sooo I don't want to stay with him forever (my boyfriend) althought he would be a fantastic husband (like the other guy). What should I do about all that?
2007-01-30 10:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU BE WITH THEM. HE WILL GET OVER IT LIKE YOU SAID YOU ARE 16. YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN BE THINKING ABOUT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP, YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY , HAVING FUN , AND ENJOYING YOU TEENS.
2007-01-30 11:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by alleykat1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until motorcross school is over before you wreck anything. Besides the other guy may get another girl at school and you're left with nothing but a broken heart yourself. Why not see if your boyfriend is interested in something similar that may turn you on. Remember sweetie that boys who become popular or famous usually cheat on girlfriends.
2007-01-30 10:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very shallow, or judgemental of the exterior, just because you had to mention him being a motorcross racer. It sounds like a very stupid thing to think about when it comes to considering the end of a relationship. Because it didn't seem like you mentioned any of the racers qualities or characteristics, aside from being a racer and "NICE". So basically it's up to you if you think it is worth breaking up with your boyfriend to get with some racer. And if i were your boyfriend and i knew you were thinking about the situation like this, i would break up with you right away. Because no girl that is going to compare her bf(which she claims she loves) to some guy she "likes" is worth it. Honestly, stay with your BF. You only "like" this racer...and he only "likes" you...But how do you feel about your BF, and how does he feel about you? Thats what the decision is made upon.
2007-01-30 11:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I carefully read your dilemma and it drove me dilemmatic too. What an entanglement! Well, just tell your first boyfriend that you love him but you are falling for this other guy that races pro, and ask him to take a walk. I cannot help you more than that since, you LOVE your first boyfriend, but, you are FALLING for that other guy that races pro?!?!?
2007-01-30 11:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK IT OFF
if udont like him quit putting ur effort in it
when u try to break it off ALWAYS HAVE THE LAST WORD!!!!
that way he wont say "oh think about it"
just flat out say it its over
move on
2007-01-30 11:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Fellinlovetoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are 16 you have no clue what real love is so tell your guy bye bye and move on to the next... you are only young once so please enjoy it.. when you are older the time and guy will come that will be the man you will marry so till then have fun..
2007-01-30 11:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to decide who do you really love? I mean you havent spent much time with the motorcross guy so how do you know he is the best for you
2007-01-30 10:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by BeautifulEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should say something to this other guy, and uh...if your boyfriend didn't let you break up with him...there's something wrong with that picture.
2007-01-30 11:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what to do? grow up! i pity your current bf. i hopes he wakes up and allows you to split with him. he won't be happy if he tried to stay with you anyway.
if you do manage to slpit with him, i hope one day you don't realize that you want him more than the motocross guy. because when you come back to him, maybe he doesn't want you anymore.
2007-01-30 11:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy silly, Date both of them.
2007-01-30 10:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋