Theres a boy that im kinda friends with and hes pretty nice.But just a few weeks ago he told me he's being abused.Im still in school so i told a teacher that i really trust (he didnt know) and she told the princable.Is to old to live by himself and his parents live in different states.Now hes in a foster home.He found out i told and now hardly ever talks to me.Today he started screaming in my face and my friend had to make him back off.Should i have told? Will he hate me forever?
2007-01-30 10:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by Shelby W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You did the right thing to get him out of that situation. I would have done the same thing too! You have saved his life from an evil person who could have destroyed him entirely.
I really think that he trusted you and that's why he told you about him being abused. He may have told you for a reason, to save him. Don't ever feel bad about what you have done. He may feel hurt towards you, but he doesn't have to feel the pain of what he has been going through anymore.
I don't think he will hate you. He just needs time for himself and time for healing. I am sure he will thank you for what you have done for him. He is in a better place now and hopefully someone will take him in, just hope that it is a relative of his or a good family as well. Again, you have saved his life! (smile)
2007-01-30 11:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cant you may lots of my own however the ultimate one i take advantage of on my step young babies is 'The plug monster' (the only in the waste from the tub that groans). could clarify why ive now have been given 2 babies who wont wash! and not probable a scare element yet yet another sturdy one to maintain money in the summertime 'The ice cream van in basic terms performs music to let us know he has ran out' I saved that going for years lol. Then saying that they are the two incredibly gullible, One spent over an hour searching for the 2nd get admission to of 'Gullible' in the dictionary Am i a foul guy lol?????
2016-10-16 07:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course u should have told! u made the right descision. u could have saved him from getting hurt. He shouldnt be mad at u foreva becuz u saved him, he just really doesnt realize it yet. let me just say i hope he will talk to u again and u work this out! i dont have much experience with the situation but i have seen an episode of full house where stephanie had a friend that got beaten and she told. she felt guilty but everything worked out. but come on the world isnt that perfect like ti was in full house. i hope ive helped
2007-01-30 11:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Smart Blonde! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should have told, and no he won't hate you forever. Once he can see through his emotions he'll know without a doubt you were the one who cared enough to risk everything and get him some protection.
You did the right thing. That's something to be very proud of. I hope my kids would do this for their friends too, when they get older.
2007-01-30 10:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. cause if you didn't say anything who's to know something bad could of happened to him and you would have to live with that guilt.. he's angery with you right now just give him some time, he'll thank you later. its better to be safe than sorry and he will realize that your a good friend and you did something that he didn't have the strength to do. keep in mind you did the right thing.. and he doesn't hate you.
2007-01-30 11:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably did the right thing, it just isn't easy. He might be taking his anger out on you cuz, he can't take it out on anyone else. Tell him your sorry, but you didn't know what else to do. Tell him you care about him & you were just trying to help. He can be mad if he wants but let him know you are there if he needs it & then walk away until he is ready if ever to forgive.
2007-01-30 10:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shelby -
Yes, you did the right thing. It may not feel like it right now,
but you did. Chances are he will not hate you FOREVER!!
You may not become friends again, but the day will come
when he becomes aware that you may have saved his life.
One day he will grow to appreciate what you did, but don't
hold your breathe because chances are it will NOT be anytime
soon.
Just respect how he is feeling and give him room. When / if
he becomes ready to talk to you........he will find you.
Good luck and while its tough...........YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!
2007-01-30 10:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey thats cool my name is shelby too! Well anyway yes you did the right thing because now he isnt being abused anymore. One day he will realize that you helped him and will thank you for it. So he should be thanking you. It will be hard for him now but it will get better!!!! So dont worry about it!
2007-01-30 11:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by smart brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing girl.. well, the fact that hes been abused is hard to accept.. why don't you let him cool up first, give him time and soon he'll realize that what you did is for his own good.. and if ever time comes that he still keep on cursing you, damn, dont feel guilty about it.. you just did what is right..
2007-01-30 11:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath.
You did the right thing. Because of you, he isn't getting hurt anymore. Because of you, he'll have a better life.
I know, it seems hard but you did it to protect him.
He'll realize it later in life.
2007-01-30 10:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by small one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋