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I enjoy sex with both guys and girls, but I like sex with girls better. I'm physically attracted to both the male and female body. However I am only able to have a romantic passionate relationship with another girl. I have not been able to have one with a guy, and I have tried many times. I have a girlfriend who is also my soulmate and I will probably end up marrying her. I think I am a lesbian who also likes hetero sex,but mostly just a lesbian.

2007-01-30 10:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

21 answers

bisexual because u enjoy both

2007-01-30 11:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 1 0

In all reality it doesn't matter what the label of your sexual orientation is. As long as you are happy and with the person you love then you should have no reason to worry. You are still young and there is chance that a guy may come into your life and you may end up with him. If you are unsure don't claim a specific title.

Lesbians means your sexual preferance is with other woman only, bisxual means you are sexually responsive to both sexes, so my guess is that you are bisexual, but you just have a better time with other women.

2007-01-30 18:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you have sex with both guys and girls but like sex with girls better, it doesn't mean that you are a lesbian. In fact, not knowing your age, it would be hard to tell if you are even bi. A lot of experimenting goes on, encouraged by people who will tell you that homosexual sex is natural. They will even encourage you. This is wrong. No one should be trying to influence you to have sex with boys either. You should hold back rather than forging ahead with intense mistakes. Your particular problem may be that you are afraid that boys will reject you or don't really like you, or are using you. (You may have set that situation up yourself - without consciously knowing it.) You may think that girls would never do that (they use people for sexual purposes and call it love just like anybody else) and so you are trying to protect yourself from getting hurt. This wrong thinking allows you to relax enough to have a romantic relationship with another girl. But life is long and you will always be crossing paths on the job or in your social life with all variety of guys. You will inevitably be drawn to some of them them and in the right relationship, you will choose a heterosexual life with a home and husband and children. You will see one day that it is what surrounds you. You will know then that you don't want a sperm donor who has a number to be the father of your child. And you'll be much smarter about seeing the future for a child with heterosexual parents and ancestors that they can identify on both sides. It will all come together so don't block yourself off now. You may have tried many times but it is not unusual for people to date hundreds of people - by the time your are thirty, you may have surprised yourself at how many men you have come to know. Some of them will be men you love as deeply as this girl in your life right now.

2007-02-03 15:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0 1

Your identity will become clearer as you get older and you have more relationship experience. Right now, try to avoid labels and go with the flow.
Some women identify as bisexual, but that doesn't mean their preference is straight 50/50; 50% men and 50% women. Sometimes they enjoy one gender more than the other. Sometimes their preference changes and they enjoy men more than women. Thats the essence of being bisexual.


Love and pleasure is not limited by gender.

2007-01-30 18:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No your a bisexual because enjoy sex with both genders.

2007-01-30 18:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 1 0

honey...if you are attracted to both girls and boys, you are bisexual without the resources of a male. believe me once you get it good you wont go back

2007-01-30 18:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by nikka 2 · 0 0

ok, my view on that is ur only gay or bi if U say that u r, its your decision and nobody else has the right to label u... and it doesnt really mean that u r just because u like sex with girls more... its natural... enjoy it!

2007-02-03 18:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 1 · 1 0

It sounds like you are bisexual because you are attracted to both genders.

2007-02-01 21:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Queen 2 · 0 0

a lezbian that likes sex with dudes. id say ur were a crazy lezbian who needs a reality check or a normal happy bi woman with more a feeling for the female anatomy.

2007-02-04 01:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Danceinda7flames 2 · 0 1

i think your bisexual but if you cant decide then talk with your girlfriend about having a guy around too but if you like your girlfriend more just stay with her

2007-01-30 19:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0 0

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