My boyfriend and I were together for two and a half years. After we first broke up, we talked a little and it was all really pleasant. Anyway, we have a mutual friend that told me that my ex was not doing well even though my ex says he is fine. Last night, he left a message that said he was "feeling very very depressed." The last few days we haven't talked and he didn't respond to a text or a message I sent. What do you think is going on with him? We have been broked up for a month. I broke up with him, but it was only because I felt like he would have ended it and I couldn't do it any longer. Please no advice on moving on, I'm just trying to understand what could be happening with him. Thanks!
2007-01-30 10:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he is very confused. It is going to be hard for him to maybe admit that the relationship is over. The end of a relationship is just like mourning a death....beacuse really it is a death of something that was significant to you. There are processes and things that you have to do to move on. That could be why he called you and left you the message.....but is not answering your calls or txt that you sent.
My question here: You broke up with him because you thought he was going to first? So you thought you would beat him to the punch?
I don't know...hope this helps :)
2007-01-30 12:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully after dating him for 2 1/2 years, yall had an indepth communication....because hun, the best thing is to NOT BULLSHIT around, and just come straight forward...
2007-01-30 11:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is heart broken and lost without you.Yall was friends before yall was lovers and he miss that.
2007-01-30 11:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by TILII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been with him 2 and a half years and you ask strangers for advise? whatever happen to communications?
2007-01-30 10:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and ask.
2007-01-30 10:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋