How long did it last?How did you get through it?Did you move on or do you still think about it?
2007-01-30 10:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Sonny 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The last 10 years. On again/off again marriage with a bloke addicted to pot and alcohol, unexpected prregnancy, stillborn baby girl, miscarriage, discovered husband's betrayal, final split with husband, tried to reconcile with him but he didn't want to stop sleeping with my 18 year old cousin, divorce, parents have written me off and won't speak to me, new boyfriend now but he won't commit.
It's still ongoing.
I get through it by realising that, even though it's not very pleasant to be me, it could be worse. I have two kids and a lot of resiliency.
I have moved on from a lot of it, forgiveness helped a lot there. Yes I do still think about it, mostly missing my daughter and wishing my ex would grow up and treat his kids properly.
2007-01-30 10:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by CheeseFest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a TEEN... in High School. I couldn't wait to get out of that hole and live in the real world !
It lasted approx the 4 years of High School.
I grinned and beared it.
I moved on but laugh at it every time I get a class reunion invite... Couldn't imagine going back to see some of those morons. 1/2 still live off mommy and daddy and think they have the world by the ****. I on the other hand, have great success and have no plans on sharing that info with any of them.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh life is good !!
: )
2007-01-30 10:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im only 18 but the hardest time of my life was around freshman year of high school b/c my dad and grandpa both died in the summer before and i was ok until the school shrink told me she thought i was clinically depressed. This set something off in my head and i was never diagnosed or anything but im pretty sure i was depressed after she said that. I don't know how I got through it really...things just got better sophomore year when i started to focus on school. I still think about it all of the time.
2007-01-30 10:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say before I understood who God was and what the purpose of human life is and how to transcend all misery, I was pretty confused and messed up. from childhood to the age of 27 years old. Long journey but it was worth it to get to this point. I am f 41 and happy and let go of my past. If you are interested go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- Gives the meaning and purpose of life.
2007-01-30 10:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest time in my life was when my Mom remarried to an alcoholic that was very abusive. I had always led a peaceful existence until she married him. She stayed with him for 6 years and it totally changed me. He used to beat her up, and shoot guns and stuff at us, and he molested me. I sought counseling for it 20 years later, but occasionally it still haunts me. I have major trust issues because of it.
2007-01-30 10:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by cynical1963 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest time in my life was an end to my marriage,left with six kids to care for and a men who wanted his time to myself, Off he went on to a girlfriend had no time for kids,one good thing he did help with support.well back to school for me - First was EMT-worked for awhile-more classes -now site safety engineer in construction. Bought my own house six years ago.It took 10 years to get over and get back on track.Now I have never been happier in my life.Have grand kids now and the love and respect of my children.Yes i still think about it but now it doesn't hurt as bad.oh as to him -his girlfriend cheated on him -kids don't see him often-he mad that I bought a house. guess all well in my world.
2007-01-30 10:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by zachsgrammy1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Getting through 8 years with my first love. I believe that, though I did get through it and move on, those miserable years ruined my life.
2007-01-30 10:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answering this question. It lasted 3 minutes and it was an up hill struggle. I,ve now moved on
2007-01-30 10:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by AnyaNledo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TWO TIE FOR HARDEST
CHILDHOOD AND
35 YEARS
EDUCATION PERFECTING LOVE OF CHRIST
KIDNAP/TRIBULATION OF BEING MENTALLY DEAD
CONTINUING
1K YRS
AMNESIA CONFUSION DEGENERATES
CENTERING SELF UPON
THE PERFECTING LOVE OF CHRIST WHEN COMPETENT
2007-01-30 10:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The third grade was long and hard...all three yrs...lol...
2007-01-30 10:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋