need to give her time. Or is this permanent. Has this happened to you. What happened, did you go back out after a while. I also made out with someone when we were broken up for two weeks and that why she broke up with me. Its been 3 weeks now.
2007-01-30 10:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I truly think you should leave her alone for right now anyway. If she wants you she will come and find you. keep some dignity and just let her be right now. Sorry to say she has all her girlfriends in her ear right now. Telling her that she did the right thing by breaking up with you. You do need to give her time to let her head and her heart battle it out. Don't call her let her call you. and if you see her in person from time to time. Be nice but not pressing. I'm sure you have already let her know how you feel. She heard you, so now let her sort through this. She has so much on her mind right now. like will you still see this girl you made out with, was that the only girl, She is thinking that if you only broke up for two weeks how could you find someone that quick. He self esteem is low right now. and she need time to bill it up again. Now I'm not saying that she will come back to you, But you don't want to force back, you want her to come back because she wants to. It true what they say. If you love something let it go, and if it comes back it was meant to be.
good luck
2007-01-30 10:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with someone for 5 years and during those 5 years, we broke up for about 2 months and then got back together. It was a slow process because too much hurt and anger was between us and before we could be good with each other, we need to figure out what we wanted in the relationship as well as each other. It didn't last and the second break up was even more painful so I say just leave it alone for now and let the dust settle. You need to give her time because you hurt her by making out with another girl and I don't care that you guys were broken up at that time, geez, the body's not even cold yet and you're getting cozy with someone else!
2007-01-30 10:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look.....She didn't break up with you because you made out with someone else. She had already broken up with you...and might have been using that as a better excuse...sorry! You should just move on. If you have been together that long...maybe you two are just growing apart......that happens...How old are you? By the pic...it looks like you are still young enough to move on......get out there...meet new people.... I have been back and forth with a few people I dated...wanting to take a break...and eventually.....it's just over. Theres a good chance it's over.......try to start healing and move on yourself. Best of luck!
2007-01-30 11:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question: How can she break up with you for making out with someone if you were already broken up? If she broke up with you then she cannot blame you for making out with someone. Also, this is a crappy excuse for breaking up with someone. She can go out with her friends anytime, but the truth is that when she does go out, she doesnt want to have to worry about what her man would say about what she is doing. It may not be permanent. It has happened to me and I did get back together with my boyfriend, however, we have broken up. We stayed together for a long time though. What kind of signals is she giving you? Is she ignoring you? It may be time to move on then. Maybe you should just give her space. You deserve someone that is going to want to be with you and not worry about being loose at the club. Like I said, she could go out with her friends while she is dating you, but she wants to talk to guys.
2007-01-30 10:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept you were not made to be together. She is angry because you had someone else just 2 weeks so just leave it alone. In time she may come back but don't count on it.
2007-01-30 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
she may need time to be with friends and get her head on straight and you mat have done something to have pushed her away either way if you don't give her space you may make it worse and drive her away just give her time but don't sit around too long wallowing and pining for her either it is not healthy if you suppose to be together then let it happen don't force it
2007-01-30 10:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by dolsab34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most people date over 5 years and they broke up never back togethers because everything is change and not the same when u guys go back togethers it wont be the same, it will change everything :-/ and sorry about that. i hope there some nice girl treate u better
2007-01-30 10:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be angry that u were making out with someone else. she could just want to be free to go out with others, yes there is always a chance of restoring the relationship, if u don't do alot of begging and pleading with her, as she won't think more of u she will just think less of u if u do. just be patient and don't be pushy or be demanding. they say being away from someone sometimes makes the heart grow fonder, just distance yourself from her don't call her, and she will wonder what your doing.
2007-01-30 10:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't she go out with her friends when she's with you? I think that's a pretty dumb reason for breaking up, unless she wants to be free to date again and doesn't want any committment.
2007-01-30 10:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so look....move on...u guys will not get past the fact that #1 friends come 1st and secondly making out with someone else?? do u even want to get her back???
2007-01-30 10:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by itsmeuguys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋