& sometime i see a guy i want to kiss & i feel weird but like thats the way i am. i look at guys like that more than girls though so i dont know how to feel so can you please HELP!!!
2007-01-30 10:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by confused boy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
calm down! you're bisexual. you can like whoever you like. don't worry about it. it's ok, really.
2007-01-30 10:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by scruffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but if you're a teenager, you might contact The Trevor Project. It is specifically intended to help young people deal with sexual identity issues. They have a toll-free number you can call and you can talk to a trained, knowledgeable person about anything you are feeling about this. Though you'll probably get some good answers from people here, I think The Trevor Project might be of more assistance to you than Yahoo Answers.
You can also email them if you'd rather do that than call.
Good luck to you.
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/default.aspx
By the way, though I know it's well-intentioned, I don't think it's helpful to simply tell this young man to calm down. It is not easy to "calm down" when you're a young person going through sexual identity issues. It might be easy for a thirty-year-old, but for a teenager, with all the enormous pressures of being accepted and finding ones place in the world, this sort of thing can be very distressing.
2007-01-30 10:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by tychobrahe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gay, Sweetie. There's no such thing as a bisexual man. They all end up being gay in the end. You're wired to like men. You are probably drawn to women at times because you admire and respect them. For example, I used to totally love Britney Spears, but I wouldn't want to sleep with her (even back when she was a super hot virgin). Maybe you just want to be like the women you see on some level (that being attractive to straight men).
2007-01-30 10:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you're too young to concern yourself with a label. In time all will become clear. I hope this helps.
2007-01-30 10:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you're gay/bi-curious, but I think if you stick to bisexual you'll be fine for now. You never know, your feelings might change -- but you seem to be bisexual right now, and it's saying your neither here nor there.
:) Hope this helps.
MaybeLater_x
2007-01-30 10:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter what you are? Don't label it, you're attracted to whoever at whatever time. You don't have to join a group, just do what you want.xx
2007-01-30 10:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be bi but with a tendency to want to be more with men.
2007-01-30 10:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound bi to me but it sounds like you are trying to hide your homsexuality tendenciues from yourself.
2007-01-30 10:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by axzaez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if you're sexually attracted/gets an erection from only guys, you're gay. if only girls, you're str8. maybe you're just curious or bi.
2007-01-30 10:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by thomas<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know how to help u but i love your avatar its hotttt
2007-01-30 10:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by alexis m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋