Do I have friends left?

Question

I think I know what everyone thinks of me now.

They all think I'm a big annoying loser, who has no life and spends his time doing pointless things.

I don't know who to trust now. I don't know if my friends are my friends.

Do I have friends left? Should I just not go to school anymore?

Time for elaberation.

English class. Time was about 1320. The teacher told this one girl to sit next to me and she said no, because I was annoying. She never listens in class, gets in trouble, and never pays attention.

I stepped outside for nearly 20 minutes and cried.

Also, someone else told me I ruin conversations.

I already know what there is to know, even in math, so why bother going to school? I'm just going to be teased all day.

And I'm not from the area (San Antonio or Texas in that matter). I moved from Japan from the military base of Yokosuka NB, and my dad cheated on my mom for a prostitute from the Philipines.

See how sucky my life is, associated with math and rhythm games?

Answer 1

hey !!! its just a phase itl pass !!! till then dont care a thing about what anyone thinks of you ! the most important thing to remember at this time is the fact that everyone who hates you does so either cause they are jealous of you or that you atre something they wanted to be but are not so..continue going to school , this will get over before you know it and and till then il be glad to be your freind !! can im me if you want !



""LIFE IS A JEST AND ALL THINGS SHOW IT
I THOUGHT SO ONCE AND NOW I KNOW IT ! ""

Answer 2

Why would you believe what others think of you? Don't be so easily convinced of others opinions - good or bad. What matters right now is what you think and if your not happy with you (aside from the influence of other people's opinions) that's something you can change if you want to. Remember, what may be pointless to some may be fulfilling to others, it's all a matter of perspective. I for instance, love to game, but I don't fit the profile yet the profile seems to be changing.

As for friends, your entire life friends come and go...only a select few tend to remain. Stick with the good ones, forget about the bad. School is only a fraction of your entire life and you just can't skip it so you mind as well try to enjoy the time that you're there.

Answer 3

You can't not go to school.

If you mope around and tell yourself you are a loser, then everyone will sure think you are one!
BUT, you are NOT a loser. Be yourself. And trust me when I say, looking for acceptance from people at school is not all that important. Stay true to yourself and don't be something you are not and when you have left school, got a job and a life you can look back and know you acted with integrity and didn't act like a sheep.
Find a group or sport or some interest away from school and make some new friends.

Answer 4

I do not know what happened for you to have such low self-esteem.Did something major happen?,or have you felt like this for a long time? You did not give much information, but I think you need some advice from a dependable source. Talk to your parents if possible or some person that you can trust. A person in the religious sect or a teacher. Try not to be so hard on yourself, don't worry so much about what other people think. If your so called friends treat you awfull, find another group that is not so judgmental.

Answer 5

Not sure why he doesn't want to be your friend anymore that's just horrible but when friends meet a boyfriend or girlfriend and they are very fond of this person then friends just kind of get pushed to the side. It's nothing you've done but they just probably want to spend all their time with that person...maybe you should go out and make new friends or get a hobby to meet new people? You never know you might meet a boyfriend... Chin up!

Answer 6

What are you good at? Math? What is there at your school that will allow you to show how good you are at that thing, your specialty, your area of expertise? The math club? Get over the fear of being thought a geek or a nerd and just do that because you like it and you like to show you are good at it. At some point, you will have a reputation for being smart. That is a bad thing for awhile, maybe, then guess what - everyone kind of thinks you have a real future because you're so smart.
You do have friends. One things friends do sometimes is ask a difficult question - like 'What am I doing wrong that makes me feel so out-of-step and friendless?' Pick a person who you think is a friend who might give you a good answer. Then at least he or she will know how uncomfortable you are feeling, too. They might sometimes have that feeling and know that it passes.

Answer 7

Did you just moved?I mean how many months have you been living in that place? I don't think that a cheating dad have something to do as to why your friends left you.

i know this ounds harsh but, did you ask yourself why
your friends think of you that way? Maybe, you're a new kid
on the block and they just feel threatened because you
are good in Math or whatever...rejection feels bad I know.
why don't you start making new friends? Don't lose hope.

besides, real friends don't judge. And of course, you still have
to go to school despite all of these things. You need education.Forget about those teasing.Just let it pass from one ear to another.

Don't give them get the satisfaction. Your life doesn't end there.

Answer 8

Do exactly what you want when you want to do it. Who the hell has the right to tell you whats cool and what isn't? Go to school, and don't give a **** what other people want. I know its hard, and it seems like school is forever, but trust me, once you finishe school there is no cools and losers. Those ppl who laugh now will be bottom of the heap in a few years, youve got nowhere to go but up. Anyone who judges people and says theyre intrests are pointless are really, really insecure (sounds cleache but its true) they probably wish on some level they could be brave enough to do what they really want instead of following the crowd xxxx

Answer 9

You should stay in school because, right now your education is what is important. Show these people that you won't run away because you are afraid they don't like you. You probably have a good many friends and you just don't realize it. If you are worried that you can't trust anyone then, keep your secrets to yourself.

Answer 10

Sometimes those that are supposed to support you the most will be the first to state their harsh opinions towards your passions etc... Independence is a beautiful thing...but sheltering yourself from education will only harm you...Keep your head up and just do you! Don't stop goin to school.