I am 23 years old and i still don't have the girl of my dreams. I want my dream girl to be extremely flexible, attractive, a gamer,
martial artist, long hair, very nice personility, 3 years younger than
me, fun to be with, she has to be between 5 foot 2 - 5 foot 5, has a
good senes of humor,and has to be either japanse, asian or american. I never to ask a girl out on a date because i know i will be rejected.
2007-01-30 09:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Sonic 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
To find the woman of your dreams, just do what I did. Improve yourself so you will be a good catch to her and be in a target rich environment.
I have a friend who is looking for the perfect woman, but spends his weekends alone at home. He needs to get out with the women.
If you want a martial artist: go to martial art chatrooms, enroll in a karate class
If you want a gamer: go to the right chatrooms for gamers, hang around arcades
If you work on yourself and become better, than you will have the confidence to ask her out. YOU CAN DO IT.
What if some girl wants to ask you out, but she is too shy to ask you out? Go break the ice and talk to her.
2007-01-30 09:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by infobrokernate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hunting for the woman of your dreams and just learn to have fun with women. If you were a hunk you would have one by now. Since you aren't you should toss your fantasy and get real. If you need a woman then you are too dependent for a mature relationship. Your expectations are superficial. You probably have no idea of what kind of a woman you will be happy with. When you find her she will probably be entirely different than what you are looking for. Your fear of rejection is because you are putting the ones you are attracted to on a pedestal.
2007-01-30 17:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Russell W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's actually a secret to getting the girl of your dreams. Few people are aware of it. The whole trick is: stop looking for her when you're awake. Instead, when you are dreaming, design a girl whose hight, weight, hair color, thoughts, laughs, skin color, desires, preferred sex positions, family, and taste in food best suit you.
Dream girls are far superior to real girls. Why have a real girl? They are all just flawed copies of your true love.... the one you meet when you go to sleep. Even if you did ever find a girl, you would never truly love her.... it's your own fantasy that you love.
Take my advice. Go someplace where you can be alone, forever. Then dream of a girl who will never force you try or learn anything challenging, unexpected, unfamiliar, difficult, tedious, or new.
2007-01-30 21:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by sophist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want someone like that then keep dreaming lol jk I am pretty sure that theyre are people remotley close to that but first off you need to relax.. You have way to many expectations on what you want that you may intimidate people.Expectations are good but if you have been trying to find this perfect person than you need to let her find you maybe or just let it come naturally. Hey you never know you may fall in love with someone completely opposite. Good Luck hun!
2007-01-30 17:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by quoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you retarded? if your going to look for something like that, its better to kill yourself now then wait for old age and die alone, miserable and sad and blame life for not producing a girl of your description.
Secondly, what you need to do is get your head in the right place, get a girl that would love you, that would look after you and your place, your kids as well. and becareful of the feminazis, the feminists that is, they will screw up your life so bad if you go after them, they are worth nothing, not a single dime, don't waste anything on them, your money or your time, they'll do all kinds of things to attract you , but be best on your gaurd for a good future for yourself, get a good woman for yourself, find someone you can have fun with, women want affection and love from men, if you can provide that , you will be a very happy man with a very happy wife. that is what men dream of, a happy wife and a happy family, good children as well. and if you wish to avoid feminists i suggest you try asian women because feminism is like blood flow of the west in this day and age, so be very careful of choosing the right woman in the west, there are some good women there, my bro is married to one, but they are hard to find. Good Luck to you bro with your life and finding the girls of your dream!
2007-01-30 17:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Psychee 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Be Yourself and be proud of who you are. Stay positive and Happy.
2007-01-30 17:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋