You don't know me so i don't have to lie.
I am studying in a medical school (college), have all the attributes of a so called successful living but all my life i had one regret.........I never had a friend whom i could call a sincere good and loyal friend, with whom i could share my life, my sorrows, my happiness and EVERYTHING, ask for advice and help. It doesn't mean that i'm an introvert, rather i think i've been too good to others my whole life. I helped those around me, but everybody just stuck with me as long as i was at the GIVING end, later they left and when i seeked help, i was alone. The girl whom i loved so much, from the core of my heart, left me blaming that she was an outgoing girl and blamed me for dragging her into the LOVE THING.....Now i feel so alone and sometimes too depressed thinking why this world is too small for those who are good to others? Or is the word selfish merely enough to describe them?
I have no answer.
2007-01-30 09:23:20 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honestly ur never going to find a friend who is going to be completely loyal and sincere, people like that just don't exist. but you can come close, just be friendly. part of this is coming from ur breakup! so move on and find a girl who appriciates you.
2007-01-30 09:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by =] 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, quit being so hard on yourself. when you help others it always comes back to you. you sound really nice and i am sure you have friends. however something has happened that makes you feel unloved. i say, someone close to you loves you and is there for you always. and that chic sounds like a Hag. Her loss, honey. Good for you! And try to make yourself be maybe a little more outgoing. nothing to drastic at first, just small baby steps. find some small chit chat and you'll do fine. you never know who you'll find to be your new best friend! good luck to you!! and you have a friend in me!
2007-01-30 09:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Luvbuz01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you are intelligent enough to know that it takes time to meet the right person. To paraphrase an old expression, "You need to kiss alot of frogs before you meet the beautiful princess." That is true in love and friendship. Join some study groups, get involved in campus activities and get out there and meet people. Don't put all of your hopes on one person. You have plenty of time to find Miss Right and real friends.
2007-01-30 09:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give too much, for everything there is a time & season. Just when u give up,thats when it will happen, ever need a ear to bounce off of, let me know. You have to know how to be a friend to have a friend, maybe she didn't know how. Forgive her.
Nancy bancheeidiot@yahoo.com
2007-01-30 09:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know extactly how you feel and i can definatly relate
i was stuck in a phase like that but from what it sounds like its not a phase
knowing what it feels like, i really want to be your friend. you can IM me online if you want its xdeffxboyxrazyx and i promise ill be a good friend, everything you said before
2007-01-30 10:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww.. yeah im having problems with my "friends" being back stabbers and just ditching me all the time. i really have no true friends. this is what the do to me. i help but they dont return the favor.
2007-01-30 09:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write me if you like.
2007-01-30 09:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋