my feelings?

Question

ok there is this 15 yr old boy that i fancy and im 14 i mean we are friends but we dont talk to each other much any ive been wondering if he fancies me or not but im so scared to ask him i mean ive asked his mate who he fancies but his mate keeps on saying i cant tell you, and everytime i see him on the way 2 school sometimes i say hi and sometimesi get tongue tied sometimes when i look at him he smiles, and sometimes he looks really nervous because if i look at him he looks down then he looks up looks at me really quickly for like 1 sec look away then look about the place, even once he came round my house with his parents because we are good family friends anyway i was sitiing opposite him but we couldnt look at each other and we didnt even talk to each other but if i caught him looking at me he would look away quickly sometimes he would hold it, but he looked a bit nervous coz we couldnt look at each other straight, i mean i speak to him on msn and he speaks back. does he fancy me?

Answer 1

OK first of all don't get to stressed out about this you are only 14 and have plenty of time for boys and the so many problems they cause. But from what you have said i think he likes you, now the typically thing boys do is playfully hit you if he has done that then he is interested. But the only way you are gonna know for sure is to ask him, i know as a 14 year old it is hard to go up in front of a boy when he is with his mates and ask him if he likes you, so if you can try and get him alone and just ask, "hay sometimes i see you looking at me i just want you to know i like and i was wondering if you liked me to?"

H e will like you for asking him yourself and the fact that you have the courage to take him away from his friends and tell him how you feel shows great maturity.

So go on girl give it ago.l

Answer 2

Well it sounds like he could fancy you. The best way to find out is to ask him. If your too scared to ask him in person maybe you could try talking to him on msn. Or I am sure he might have an email address maybe you could just write him an email if your too scared to directly talk to him in person or by chatting online. No matter what don't be scared. You may just get your wish and if not atleast you know the truth and can move on gracefully. Good luck!

Answer 3

This is a bit of a difficult one. You might ask him if he would like to go to cinema or some other not necessarily romantic thing. If he says yes, then he is at least interested. Only fate can tell where things will go from there, as you get to know one another.
--That Cheeky Lad

Answer 4

ok, your only 14 so relax. i know it seems like a huge deal now but its not.

good, now your calm, get closer to him so that he knows your a good friend, and hopefully then you'll both be able to sustain a proper convo and if he does like you then he could pluck up the courage to do somin about it. also flirt with him alittle(if its possible) touch his arm, or ask him about his crush. it seems like he likes you but sometimes you can read signs that arent there. i dont know the situation so i cant really give great advice, but i hope it all works out xx. the thing to remember is not to rush it. become his friend before making any moves. xxx

Answer 5

It sounds to me like he probably likes you. Just spend more time with him and see if anything develops.

The other option is that he just knows that you like him, and he's embarassed because he doesn't feel the same.

Either way, if you just spend time with him withouth making a big deal of it, either something will develop or your friendship will become stronger without either of you feeling pressured.

Good luck!

Answer 6

Sounds to me like you have an admirer, dont miss the oppurtunity, ask him out.The worst that can happen is he says no. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Answer 7

its simple just ask him.
Yes you sre scared but stop using victim statements, and you may allow yourself to move forward