i have so many whishes and dreams i would like to achieve but i can't achieve any of them cause of my parents they are so sick and don't let me do anything.. i live in my dreams but never had the courage to live them...
2007-01-30 08:37:48 · 39 answers · asked by charming_1200 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your first problem is grammer, (Wishes not Whishes) and maybe its just me but I don't quite understand the last sentence..." i live in my dreams but never had the courage to live them..."
2007-01-30 08:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents wont let you so you can't achieve your dreams.
Dreams aren't a right sometimes you have to struggle to make them happen. If your parents are saying "no" then they will have good reasons why not ask them and find out why if you can show some maturity instead of throwing a tantrum it may help to change their minds
Also living the dream can be a big disappointment and thinking about the dream was better that's one of the reasons divorce was invented
2007-01-30 08:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents can be very over protective. I know my parents always were and I missed out on A LOT because of it. Once you are 18 you will pretty much be able to do whatever you want. And as long as your wishes and dreams won't do anything to hurt you, why won't they let you start acting on them now? Maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with your parents and tell them how you feel and try and get them to listen.
2007-01-30 08:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." You must start down the road of independence from your parents. Get more education, get a job, whatever it takes to begin to establish financial independence first. Then comes physical independence -- moving away from them. In this case, the farther the better. Then will come emotional independence, wherein you continue to care about them, maybe even love them, but make decisions bases on what is right for YOU. Once you reach that point, you will be well on your way to finding your wishes and dreams.
2007-01-30 08:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you still live with your parents, I'm going to assume you're young. This means you have plenty of time to fulfill all your dreams and wishes and have a full and happy life. You could also try taking a risk sometime, if there's something you really want to do, do it, and damn the consequences, so what if you get grounded, it'll have been worth it. Alternatively, you could face up to your parents, and explain to them what you want out of life to be happy, if they truly can't understand this, maybe you should get in touch with an authority so that you can get the life you deserve. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-30 08:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they sick in the head or physically sick and require your help? How old are you? Make your dreams come true you only live once so we are told. If you can not fulfill your dreams at this time live in your dreams plan out how you are going to get there.
2007-01-30 08:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to congratulate you on helping your parents but if you can't help yourself how can you truly help them? Talk to your parents, let them know you have dreams and what the dreams are. Ask other family members to help you take care of your parents. Even talk to a visiting nurses agency. If they are on medicare, it will cover most if not all of the fee for the visiting nurse. You can't be expected to stop your life to take care of your parents. If they want you too they are not being fair to you. I wish you luck in your achieving your dreams.
2007-01-30 08:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are truly sick, you may be stuck.
If they are well, but you're simply calling them sick, and assuming you're of legal age, go live some of your dreams. Life passes quickly, and at the end, the only thing you'll regret (short of hurting others) are the things you didn't do!
2007-01-30 08:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you the one taking care of them? If so, I feel sorry for you. Is there someone who can help take care of them well you go and full fill your dreams? Sometime you need to start taking steps toward your dreams, with or without them, because there not always going to be there and you need to live your life too. Talk to someone who can help you with your parents and you.
2007-01-30 08:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to assign some required reading for you.
It's a book by Melodie Beatty titled "Co-Dependant No More"
It will seem to be a book directed at women who live with alcoholic husbands, but it won't be too big of a stretch for you to apply it's message to you, & your situation, so invest the 20 bucks in it, & take some time to read it.
Also look up the nearsest chapter of "Co-Dependants Anonymous"
You have tied your future to the fate of someone else. That's an unhealthy thing for anybody to do.
So learn to take care of yourself.
2007-01-30 08:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋