just wondering because my parents would never look at me the same way again, that would be like telling them i went to college for nothing and i want to isolate myself or something.
2007-01-30 08:28:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My mom went to college and has a masters. I went to college but never finished and got any degree I am close to an AS degree but just stoped. I went to dental assisting school and was a dental assistant for about 6 months when I got into a major car accident and was hurt badly. After that I got married. I couldnt go back to work for a while and by that time I was pregnant with twins. So I have been a SAHM mom for 7 years now. My parents understand and tell me all the time I should go back to school and that they would even pay for it but I get this "im not as good as you" feeling from my mom bec she worked my whole life and took care of us and cleaned the house and did everything I do and I dont work. She says she doesnt act like that but I can tell when we talk about going back to work. I hated that my mother was never home. I remember being in like 1st grade and comming home to an empty house and being terrified that someone was in the house and I would walk in on them. I would send my german shepard in the house and scream from the garage the dog was coming in so they would get out before I would go in. I dont think a 6 year old should have to do that. I had to wait for my teenage baby sitter to get off her HS bus to come watch me. I swore I would never do that to my kids. I do miss adult conversations and having extra money but in the long run knowing my kids know I am here for them it is worth more then a paycheck to me!!!
2007-01-30 08:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Too late, already done both college and stay at home mom. Even if she would be angry it would be her problem. Your parents are certainly entitled to their opinion but so is everyone else. I think if you aren't living under their roof or off their allowance they don't "tell" you what to do with your life and your family. You do what feels right for you, your children, and your husband. You can always go back to work and find that awesome, fulfilling career later, but your kids will not be kids forever.
2007-01-30 11:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bean62960 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My parents were okay with that when I told them. I actaully decided right in the middle of college that I wanted to be a stay at home mom/wife. That is really a full time job. One day that is my goal. I have a son, but am a single mom. My boyfriend wants to let me be a stay at home mom/wife when we get married though. Its great. Its a rewarding job!!!
2007-01-30 08:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you probably did tell her to get f*cked. do no longer attempt and justify it on a technicality. My mom in regulation is strictly the comparable as yours. Be a much better individual and kill her with kindness. If i will attend to her sarcastic feedback in the transport room 15 minutes after my daughter grew to become into born quite you may take care of a few crappy provides, she is in yet another usa for god sake! no rely how complicated that's, suck it up. You threw the earrings, have been rude to his mom refused to enable him sleep even in spite of the undeniable fact which you knew he grew to become into mad and a nap probable could have helped him calm down, you have intercourse with him to objective and connect the priority then ***** because of the fact it grew to become into tough no longer passionate, and you want him o cuddle you and purchase you a clean ring....strengthen up, i do no longer condone hitting absolutely everyone, he shouldn't in any respect have executed that, yet you genuinely might desire to take a protracted hard seem at your self and probably end ingesting.
2016-11-23 14:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by seim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I AM NOT A LADY.BUT i do see where they are coming from.
They want you first to be an independent person.
Live a little
Then,maybe they will accept you to be a stay at home mom.
You could always say,that kids need smart parents.
Greetings:the P. Dragon.
2007-01-30 08:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're out of college and still under your parents' thumb? Let them think what they want and contrary to your opinion, stay at home wives and Moms have has much value as any working woman.
2007-01-30 08:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think my parents would be fine with it b/c family is very important and a wife is not isolated. But I guess very family is different!
2007-01-30 08:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I hope my parents would respect my decisions as a grown-up woman. We all have choices in life and sometimes life takes us in different directions. Ultimately, the choice is ours not our parents.
2007-01-30 08:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bean 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No .. not really.. nothing is better than raising your children... and honestly.. I think that one parent has to stay home.. it should be considered admirable that someone would make such a sacrifice.. for their family.
2007-01-30 08:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
no i am a stay at home mommy and wifey! i really dont care what my parents think im old enough to make my own choices
2007-01-30 08:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by impala400sb 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋