wana take revenge but dont want to hurt any one.
reason - cheating
on- the cheater (an ex)
2007-01-30 08:28:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Vengeance is mine" saith the LORD. So the best "revenge" is to pray for her. God can handle her better than you ever could in the sense of setting things right and you will feel better than if you did something ... see, here you are asking what to do. GOD already knows what will happen, so call Him up.
2007-01-30 08:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it, however upset and angry you are. It won't have any effect on your ex and won't make you feel any better- just immature and cheap. I have been in your situation and know how angry and frustrated I was - I wanted to do anything to get a reaction. But you know what ; if you move on and keep your dignity you are the real winner - nothing is worse for your ex knowing how so not bothered you are. My advise is to book yourself a holiday or just a day away - with a mate doing something completely different. Show them you are better than than by getting on with your life. Every day dwelling on revenge is a waste of your time and there is someone out there waiting you deserved you.
2007-01-30 08:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've just had to deal with this and i can honestly say I'm glad he cheated, it showed me what a loser he really was,now I'm getting on with MY life and don't care if he cares,I'm loving all the new stuff in my life and feel more alive than i have in years,so wake up and smell the Daisey's.
By the way, now that I'm 2 stone lighter tan and radiant, going out, having fun and loving life he looks like a rabbit stuck in head lights lol
That's revenge enough for me Yeah Ha
2007-01-30 09:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by live life 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Become a success. Maybe even meet a nice woman and start a nice family. Find happiness.
Then, one day, you might run into your ex, and chances are if they were the one with the biggest set of problems, their lives will be disasters. Painless revenge without bad karma.
been there and done that... with a few ex-gfs.
2007-01-30 09:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why get revenge? Just go on with your life. Why wear yourself out by seeking revenge? Move on and be happy again and that will be revenge enough. Eventually the cheater will get what they have coming to them. If they see you are happy without them then they are really going to hate that. Don't wear yourself out by seeking revenge. The other person is not worth it.
2007-01-30 08:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Weezy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I once heard about a website that you could post their picture on and label them a cheater or something like that. Google it, you might be able to find it. :)
I would need to know more about your situation before I could tell you about revenge. I have lots of practical jokes that can be done.
2007-01-30 08:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living life as if you don't give a **** about what that person did is the best revenge. Best practice is to pray they get everything you'd want for yourself.
2007-01-30 09:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any serious revenge makes you as scummy as the person involved.
Probably the best revenge is just being the better person. Let them see what they lost.
REAL revenge is destructive to your soul. It's not good.
2007-01-30 08:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Death isnt an option - if you're the killer you'll end up in prison and people will forget about you and if you kill yourself then in no time people will forget you - what sort of revenge is that ???? Better to live and cause havoc :-) xxxx
2007-01-30 08:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by starlet108 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Showing that you have moved on is the best revenge or you could have it off with their best mate
2007-01-30 09:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋