I have masterbated for a few years now, I am thirteen. I don't penetrate, I usually rub the inside lobe and climax from that. I want to begin penetration, but I don't know how to get "in there" or what to use. I want to use my fingers, but does that work? Please don't call me a sicko or anything, I am asking you guys because I can't ask my mom or anyone else, and I like how everyone here is anonymous.
2007-01-30 08:18:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
What you're doing is perfectly normal... have no fear. Anyone that tells you otherwise is lying and just repressed.
Your fingers will penetrate, and that's probably your best option. There are all kinds of other options, but probably not appropriate for a 13 year old.
Try reading the instructions that come with a package of tampons to get an idea of your basic anatomy, and you can insert your finger just as you'd insert a tampon.
2007-01-30 08:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by answerlady1021 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you sure you want to break yourself ? there is a peice of skin inside of you called your hymen and if you penetaret you will break that and kinda take your own virginity if your serious and want to do this then take a compact mirror and look at your junk to get a better idea of where things are and just slowly insert your finger it does work you will feel some pain when going through the hymen and also you may bleed for a day or two
2007-01-30 08:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you will NOT take your own virginity if you insert fingers into your vagina. Losing one's virginity involves a penis entering the vagina, and fingering yourself has no effect on whether or not you're still a virgin, Personally, I get no pleasure from inserting fingers. But I suppose every person is different. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
2007-01-30 09:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything works, buy why go inside? If you can climax from the outside, stick with it. I am not going to get more graphic because of the age difference, but as you learn more about your body, you will learn more way of pleasuring yourself.
2007-01-30 08:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by wiscman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh...i love how innocent you are...but the girl that said the thing about tearing the hymen...girls do have hymens and thats what is torn when you have sex or "break the cherry"...you could tear yours yourself through masturbation, riding a bike, being athletic, using tampons anything like that...but inserting a finger does not mean that you are going to tear it...the vagina is very flexible...i have masturbated since i was your age and i never had any problem...im still a virgin at 19 and i have no idea if i tore mine myself or if it is still there...nothing to worry about...just go slow...you cant go in the wrong hole or you would know...just like a tampon.
2007-01-30 08:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can reach climax if you can hit your g-spot, but I think its easier with rubbing the outside. I won't say anything else, due to age difference too.
2007-01-30 08:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by bek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it will help a lot if you get professional advice, you may not get a lot of good answers here..
I believe everyone of us goes thru that.. its normal.. It also helps that you spell it right.. masterbation is not correct.
Good Luck!
2007-01-30 08:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i'm 14 and i've done this before to experiment. it's perfectly fine, it doesn't hurt or anything like that and it certainly doesn't make you lose your virginity. so, like, it's fine to stick your fingers up there, it's like having sex, except for not, and from what i understand, isn't as pleasurable. i wouldn't know though because i'm staying a virgin untill i get married. toodles!!
2007-01-31 08:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by yumpoppuz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...this is natural...however; you have to find what works for you. I don't want to advice such a young person! I'm sure with what you are currently doing...something will happen. Just be careful if you do decided to "experiment"...you don't wanna hurt yourself down there..or you would really need to go talk with "mommy"!
2007-01-30 08:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start with your fingers first just slowly don't force yourself. then you can work up your way maybe use a hair brush or something...
2007-01-30 08:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋