What if one of your best friends is always giving off the wrong immpression. Like guys are always getting stuff from her. Her ex's call her a s*ut. What should i say to her???
2007-01-30 08:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be honest and tell her
2007-01-30 08:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She's your friend. Let her know that you're concerned, but you're there for support. She obviously has issues; and then again, she may be the victim of vicious rumors and not know how to get out from under it. Her ex may be saying what he is because he's hurt over their break-up.
Friends don't judge - they are just there to catch them when they fall and provide the bridge to cross over when they get to it. If she's a good person, just focus on that and try to help her make positive choices by being a good role model. But please don't judge her. Sounds to me like enough people already are.
2007-01-30 16:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Allison S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider her your Best Friend you want to pass this information on to her. BEWARE of how you bring it to her! That whole " Its not what you say, its how you say it thing" Here are some helpful tips: (a) Don't come down on her (b) Don't try to belittle her (c) DON'T JUDGE! If you stick to the basics and keep it real she should respect that if nothing less. If you come down on her or try to make her feel like less than what she is , you might lose her as a friend. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
2007-01-30 16:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kee-Kee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her and let her know that soon the guys will figure her out and wont like her anymore. she needs to learn to respect herself. not be a what you say she is. guys will like her better if she holds back. guys like her now maybe but she will become old news to them. i am 19 and thats what i have to say. its fun for awhile until she gets a little older and has that reputation and guys are sick of her then when she wants a serious boyfriend she wont find one because they will think she is still a slut. so good luck. and let her know what i said because it will give her something to think about in the long run. trust me i know from experiance.
2007-01-30 16:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by malibu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you want to risk your social status. If you don't, stay away from her. If you feel confident you could talk to her and be socially accepted, just tell her what she's doing wrong and be brutally honest. You have the right to a good reputation.
2007-01-30 16:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk to her. I have faced this before and I made a list of every std and the definition and gave it to the person. If you can get pictures of what it looks like also. I know this might scare her but she needs to know.
2007-01-30 16:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. Coming from a guy there is nothing more frustrating than a girl like that. Your absolutely right, there reputation becomes c0ck tease, or just plain *****... Save her before it too late.
2007-01-30 16:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by SkiOli 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop and be herself. You dont always have to give guys what they want because htan they will get the wrong idea of you.
2007-01-30 18:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't hang out with people like that because they will give you a bad rep. But if she is your friend tell her what you think, and if she doesn't change then you should find new friends.
2007-01-30 16:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and sit down with her and give her a list of all the STDs and how most arent curable.
2007-01-30 16:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋