. . . could any straight person here -- please -- try to pinpoint for me, the exact date, time and hour when you personally made a conscious choice to be heterosexual?
2007-01-30 07:55:36 · 23 answers · asked by Kedar 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They won't answer because they can't.
yet they can come to the GLBT board and TELL GAYS to stop throwing our gayness in their faces?
2007-01-30 08:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 3⤋
I was born with an innate attraction to men. Nothing traumatic happened that affected that. The whole "choice" thing has been discredited time and again. The entire religous argument is ridiculous. What sort of loving G-d would put gay people here to live a life of denial and repression in order to spend an eternity thanking Him for it?
2007-01-30 08:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I got attacked by a crazy teenage girl at about the age of 9, didn't understand what she wanted from me and then when I put two and two together I decided at that moment that I definitely wasn't a homosexual- not that I ever thought about sexuality of any kind prior to that. I was NINE. I think it was early November 1981 about about 2 in the afternoon if you really need these details.
2007-01-30 08:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Tooth 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
right this is a few issues i'm no longer specific are unsleeping alternatives, that are the two socially unacceptable, deviant, outright evil or genetic: alcoholism drug dependancy psychopathological behaviors cigarette smoking intercourse addictions abusive habit (sado or maso) pedophilia incest bestiality Who quite is accustomed to what makes up a human and their "alternatives?" different persons's alternatives? discern's alternatives? in spite of. it somewhat is why, in my opinion, psychology fails to furnish suitable solutions for society--it makes all people a sufferer, yet does not furnish a societal answer. like it or no longer, society makes policies. relating to a Christian majority u . s . a ., those policies are consistent with Judao-Christian ethos. Edit: in the q of yours I in simple terms replied, you admitted which you're bi and which you made the choice to be. So why are you asking this q? you have provided anecdotal data of growing to be the alternative your self!
2016-12-17 05:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and even though I can't pinpoint the year, month, day, and hour [so ridiculous to ask that], I must say that as a kid, I couldn't care less, but as time marched on, I finally changed [gradually, as I matured into puberty], and knew for sure when "I looked under a skirt and wonder why I never looked before". I knew I liked and preferred GIRLS, hurray! I saw the world and all that's in it. So shut up and have fun.
2007-01-30 08:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by hillbilly 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No one decides what to be. Each person is born who they are. I believe that gays do not choose to be gay but that they are born gay. I am heterosexual but respect gays they are human beings the same as us and to the comment of living in sin who has never sinned? How many heterosexuals are living in sin? I bet there are loads.
2007-01-30 08:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by superstar68 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
A few years back a really nice extremely nice looking gay guy was acting very interested in me.
I thought about it but decided that I was going to stay heterosexual. realize that that doesn't count but in a way I think it helps you to make your point.
Love and blessings Don
2007-01-30 08:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't think being gay is a sin. I believe it's influenced by both genes and upbringing (nature/nurture).
I haven't made a conscious choice to be heterosexual. The vast majority of my romantic and sexual experiences have been hetero. However, if I met an amazing woman who I really connected with, I would have no problem dating her.
2007-01-30 08:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
I think it's funny when people say they're straight or mention having a husband, wife, or family, then say they don't talk about "their private lives" like us gays and bisexuals.
And let's not even get into symbols like wedding rings!!!!
2007-01-30 08:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say birth. We all have fantasies and it's normal to fantasize about doing things with the same sex. However, it's not normal to act on those fantasies. You must understand that if you truely believe in GOD and open your heart to feel GOD, you wouldn't ever need to question. Being gay is a choice. There are more and more people claiming to be gay these days. If you don't atleast try to find out for yourself, you are the only one who will suffer. Ask yourself, do you really see yourself at 80 with that person. It's simply about the sex and nothing more. Every gay person I have ever talked to couldn't prove me wrong. Care to try? Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-30 08:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Nope. It never happened. It's not a conscious choice. And I don't think that being gay is a choice either. You're just born to be who you are.
2007-01-30 08:00:47 · answer #11 · answered by true blue 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋