I don;t seem to get over my ex and miss him even after 2 years. He is in my thoughts whatever I do. i married a wonderful man but i always feel it was my X who made me complete. There was only one thing compatible with my ex and that was flame and passion and that is the thing I miss with my hubby. and this makes it worst. Is there a way i can move on and stop thinking about my past... and stop living in memories.
2007-01-30 07:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
life isn't all about passion and lust, there is alot more to it. stop comparing the new hubby to the ex, they are two different men and not going to be the same. no one makes us complete, we make ourselves complete. memories are just that, got to get past them and be happy for what u do have in life, be grateful for the good man u married. you must accept that the past is over with, we have to accept people for who they are, sex is only a small part of marriage not the complete thing by any means. watch what u are telling yourself, as our words create our destinies. we can't waste today thinking and regretting our past, or it will affect our life.
2007-01-30 08:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused/// Getting over an ex is trying , 2 yrs and you remarried ,love the one your with ,If the other was worth having he would be there. Change your thought to the present or he will be in the past also.Move on enjoy today
yesterday gone. Keep Smiling and let him go.
2007-01-30 17:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you get married to someone if you still had feelings for another? when did you marry, two years after you and your ex parted or sooner? Obviously, you needed more time. Don't hurt your current husband with this nonsense, time to find some counseling and find out what you are missing in your life that causes you to jump from one bed to another
2007-01-30 16:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by isellhousesinnm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So maybe you figure that by leaving out the detail that you have cheated on your current husband, more than once, you'll get more sympathetic answers? First, you divorce someone who is loving and passionate. Then, you marry a man who is not and then BLAME HIM FOR IT. To top it off, you cheat on him, and then try to excuse your adultery by saying you feel guilty about it. My advice: buy a vibrator and shut up. You've screwed up enough lives already.
2007-01-30 16:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus your love and infatuation on your husband. If your ex made you complete, why are you no longer together? It may take counseling to help you get the ex out of your system.
2007-01-30 16:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some serious counseling and fix yourself. you can not have a functional relationship unless you are mentally healthy, and you are not.
learn to be functional, and have some self respect not to involve innocent people in your messed up life.
there is more to life than flame and passion, if you find it with the one you are with, yea!!! kudos for you, if not, life does go on. and you can still be healthy and functional.
2007-01-30 16:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the past also I can't get over my ex i can't even divorce him so when you get this answer let me know , I know it was wrong of you to remarry knowing you have feelings for another.
2007-01-30 16:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by LaTanya B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to get over ex and think about the man your married to now
2007-01-30 15:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Focus on what you have now, the past is the past, try new things with your hubbie.....God bless ya
2007-01-30 16:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with night hawk u need to forget bout ur ex and think about da future with ur husband
2007-01-30 16:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋