Was it wrong of me to tell my brother's best friend to buzz off?

Question

My brorther's friends were putting up at my place. As i came out of the bathroom,i overheard my bro's best friend telling another friend of his mean stuff abt me. He said,"when she screams,the whole apartment can hear her". I am pretty hot-tempered i must say but making fun of it? I told him,"If u wanna say such things abt me i would rather you do not do it in my house". He then left the house in anger. My parents and my brother do not know abt this. It shows how lil' these people respect me. Do u think my bro must have been saying mean stuff abt me to his friends?

Answer 1

All brothers and sisters get mad and talk about each other. Hell we even do it when we're not mad. If this was your house and not your parents house, then you had every right to kick him out. If it wasn't your house, then you had every right to say to his face what you found offensive, and that you didn't appreciate it. Then it would be his choice as to weather to leave or not. I would tell your brother what was being said, and that you don't appreciate it. On the other hand, does the whole apartment building hear you when you're mad? Maybe it's time to step back, and look at yourself. Do you want to be known as a screechier? (that's just one step down from a hag) It's not that attractive, and neither is the attitude it's my place and I can do what I want. Of course it is, and you can, but do you want to look bad too? Just something to think about.

Answer 2

I agree with Alex and Tweetz. It's your house and if he has a problem with you, then he can have that problem elsewhere. You did the right thing. ;)

Answer 3

i think the freinds was just and *** hole i mean why would you say that if you are in that persons house

Answer 4

hey youve got your rights to YOUR house...if he has a problem he can leave

Answer 5

what you did was perfectly fine. it was your house and he shouldn't of said that at all, no matter where.