If your husbandd and you are in an argument and he just lashes out " i wish I had married "girls name" who turns out to be a close friend of the two of you, what would you think!
Now this girl and u are friends and you guys hang out, she is amrried with a baby and you are bestfriends with the guy etc...
The hubby is bestfriend with the guy and girl... for a long time..sou met them through him..
2007-01-30 07:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what if he has done this before?
2007-01-30 07:44:29 · update #1
When people are fighting they say things to try and hurt the other. That's almost certainly the case here.
It's still out of line, but you shouldn't take that seriously. Come on - have you ever told him you wish you hadn't married him? Hated him etc? Well you didn't mean that either, did you?
2007-01-30 07:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. He was just trying to make you sad, seems to have worked too. Why not confront him with your question? I'll bet that would shed a completely different light on things than what you're having to live through in your brain.
2007-01-30 07:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just lashing out in a moment of anger and trying to hurt you. Wait til you have both calmed down adn ask him rationally what he meant by it.
2007-01-30 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it means he was angry and being petty. Sounds like you two need to work on your communication skills. There is a right way to argue, and yelling stupid hurtful things is not it.
2007-01-30 07:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably trying to hurt you the best way he could. IT is bad, I admit, but I am sure he didn't mean it. Good luck. Mayabe he said it out of spite.
2007-01-30 07:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i'd take my car keys and anything else thats mine and walk out the door. he doesnt want you, then fine, let him find something better. i wouldnt take that **** from anyone. i'd make sure i'd mail him the divorce papers later as well as the bill for my lawyer
2007-01-30 07:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id think he wanted her instead of you
2007-01-30 07:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋