Ok well its final me and my wife are getting a divorce ... im in a new relationship with a awsome girl.... now the only bad part is that i havent quite been honest about my divorce with her .. i have told her that i have a baby and i have a ex but she thinks that the divorce is all over said and done... should i continue with this lie or should i tell her that the divorce is not over... my mom is comming in to town here on friday and i think she might want to meet her... and im not sure how to keep this up since i know she will start a big issue with me dating already,.... im not sure what to do any suggestions
2007-01-30 07:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. Tell your new girl the truth.
Gently and well-protected.
2007-01-30 07:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess -- one of the reasons for your divorce is because your wife feels like she can't trust you, like you are dishonest with her. Hello! Wake up and find some self-improvement! Grow into a mature, honest person. Until you do, you don't deserve a new relationship, especially not with an awesome girl.
2007-01-30 15:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the interest of full disclosure tell the girlfriend the truth. The sooner the better. If you really like her then you will have enough respect for her to do that.
2007-01-30 15:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by veni*vidi*vici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, come clean or you will be in 2 screwed up relationships, 3 if your mom gets pissed off
2007-01-30 15:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of making you panic, man up already to your girlfriend and tell her the TRUTH!!!!! If you haven't already that is.
2007-01-30 15:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her. if you dont and she finds out later she's going to just think that you were cheating on your wife with her and that you're just going to cheat on her next.
2007-01-30 15:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by mickey g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the way to go, or it may come back to bite you.
2007-01-30 15:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation...tell her!!!
2007-01-30 15:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's that awesome...tell her
2007-01-30 15:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by kane_derick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. your screwed.
2007-01-30 16:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋