He keeps saying that he has to stay in Alberta becuase his job makes him happy. We have only been married a year and have got to spend no time together other then a few weeks I feel like i have been cheated and like him being with me should be enough. What should i do am I being selfish?
2007-01-30 07:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by Jodi Lee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can you move to Alberta where your husbands work is ?
Have you told him how you feel about staying in this relationship ?
Do you have a job ? Tell him you feel cheated, and open up a discussion, if you think that would make things better. You really need to talk it out. You need some assurance that it won't always be like this. Right ??
Only you can answer your last question.
2007-01-30 07:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you move closer to where he works???? Let me tell ya-the first year of marriage is always the hardest to get through, this is the time when the 2 of you need to sit down and have a good talk about what you both can do to make things easier on both of you. At least you have the choice of possibly moving closer-my husband is Active duty military-I have seen him about 18 months in 4 years-we make it work, I think you can too! Best of luck!!!!
2007-01-30 07:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by lilbit1231 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him about how your feeling if you havent already. Make it a point to him that you are very serious about the situation. have you considered moving to Alberta and living there with him? Has he offered you to move? If he is making good money perhaps you should take that into consideration and move to where he is.
2007-01-30 07:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by jobruce86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you two live in different states? That sounds really hard. I would say if you two really really love eachother, then someone has to make the move to be with the other. Marriage is a two way street and if both don't want to contribute, it won't work. Good luck! :)
2007-01-30 07:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by happyfacemommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being selfish, just lazy. Pack up your stuff and move to Alberta!
2007-01-30 07:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays many women are against marriage. Why?
Because women realize its not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
2007-01-30 11:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you not know this before marriage? If so, was it a topic of discussion? Is there no way you're able to join him???
PLEASE look at all your alternatives before considering such drastic measures of ending your marriage........which as basically just begun. ;)
2007-01-30 07:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but the vows says for better or for worse, so you knew what you were getting into. And i don't know if your religious or not but PRAYER changes things...
2007-01-30 07:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by MrsLady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋