The woman is described as one who is averse to house work, loves going out and flirting, believes in corporate life and the heavy returns it gives, yet wants all the trappings of family.
2007-01-30 07:19:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all she's acting childish, and selfish not caring for your feelings. You need to set boundaries of what you will tolerate and not tolerate just out of respect for you and her as a couple. It's not wrong to enjoying going out or coropate life however, if it's over excessive that it disrupts family life then thats when it becomes a problem. There needs to be some kind of balance to incorporate family life as well. Flirting is not respectable if it's soliciting response to act on. However, if someone give a compliement that can be flirtations this is an innocent jesture if it's kept in perspective without no expections from each of the party's involved. She should know that family is most important than money, job, etc. You should tell her how you feel in a diplomacy fashion for discussion only not to start an arguement. Good luck
2007-01-30 08:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman you describe is a very independent person who dwells on acceptance and reliance from people better than her, or so she feels, giving her the importance of the higher connections. A woman of this type would not be suited for a family environment because she would only use it to add to her personal resume'. Let her go quickly and find that special someone, who is out there, that will allow you to distribute your combined efforts to create a life and a set of joint goals for both of you. Don't be miserable! DO IT NOW!!!
2007-01-30 07:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sarge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that we come from different cultures. So, I'll just say this from the perspective of a not-terribly-conservative Westerner--each to their own. If her goals in life and yours are so wildly divergent it is time to move on. There are other fish in the sea. If you are married, well, this might be a good time to accept that even though she is female she does have wants/desires/plans/hopes/dreams like any other individual on the planet. Men are not the only people in the world that have dreams of their "ideal life". Apparently, your ideal life consists of a very traditional and subservient wife and she doesn't sound like she plans on filling that role anytime soon.
Good luck, if you can strike a balance, it might work, but, it doesn't sound like you're headed in a good direction for that. Better to part ways and find your respective happiness with other people.
2007-02-01 11:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some us us have to learn the hard way. Experience, wasted years and wasted relationships.
If you aren't married to her, or even if you are, take a class together or do something together that will allow a full and open communication between you both, with a mediator or higher learned source amoungst you.
Since she's soooo corporate minded, take her to the seminar listed below. It will ROCK her world!
2007-01-30 07:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
skill she has low self-worth & desires a pal. that's this way of ingredient you do as quickly as you have typical a trusting courting with somebody, no longer once you only getting to renowned. She may be a physically powerful female, yet feels like she's have been given themes she's have been given to handle. in case you want to easily be a physically powerful individual, tell her in case you think of she could see a professional or develop her self-worth. tell her what you like approximately her & what you do no longer. Than make a call, in case you want to maintain on being together with her in spite of what you do unlike or only smash it off, for her sake & yours.
2016-11-23 14:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by runkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some women who can actually handle it! If you are not involved with this dynamo, I suggest you steer clear of her for she will only be able to thrive with a partner who has the same outlook on life. If she is your run-of-the-mill corporate/cutie/housewife/lover wannabe, steer clear also, for she will run herself ragged and you crazy at the same time.
2007-01-30 07:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds to me like a miss match. If a person has to have everything their way, they are not ready for marriage. This is a give and take proposition. Also, many times in marriage there is sacrifice, I don't think she sounds too ready for this. I understand many times it is hard to fight love. Good luck to you, I hope you can arrive at a healthy compromise.
2007-01-30 07:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short...she wants her cake and eat it too?
I'd give her the ultimatum...either crap or get off the commode..
In the real world we all have decisions to make, give a little here take a little there and it balances out. For one person to take it all makes a cold and lonely place in which to come home to at night
2007-01-30 07:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her. Sounds like a high-maintenance attention seeking (word that I can't say here) who needs to grow up. Maybe she's gotten away with that behavior in the past but I certainly wouldn't tolerate it from anyone.
2007-01-30 07:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well what you are describing is an example of complete imbalance. That is not healthy. If that bothers you then you truly need to put your foot down and make her make a choice whether to stop that.
2007-01-30 08:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by shusha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋