Single or dating man, with children. Had an affair with a married woman who is now pregnant with your child. What do you do?? Do you leave this woman to raise your child with her husband and their kids, is that fair?? Do you ask her to be with you and/or do you at least want to be known as that father of your child AND does hubby stay or go...they have 2 girls...
2007-01-30 06:50:31 · 7 answers · asked by notso_recoveringwino 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
personally i would ask the mother what she wanted to do about it. u can see where her heart is at, but if it's not with u, i wouldn't break up her marriage.
2007-01-30 06:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
convince her to abort...she's already got kids and this one will complicate everything. After that...have a good bye lunch and never get involved with a married woman again. You know now where this will lead and none of the situations are good. Nor will the children be spared of untold amounts of grief.
If she won't? let her raise the kid as if it's her and her current hubbies. But be prepared for lots of grief if he finds out...and lots of child support payments too. If she didn't want to be with you before she got preggers then the only reason she'd want to be with you after is the financial support she's going to need after her husband finds out and divorces her.
2007-01-30 15:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by digdowndeepnseattle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married woman should not be cheating and gets what she deserves. Sadly all children involved will suffer in some way.
2007-01-30 15:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a vasectomy so you will never be able to reproduce again and save society from this problem in the future. What you do is keep it in your pants.
2007-01-30 14:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont complicate things already. Leave her alone and let her not tell her hubby.
If you are married, focus on yours. Else just move on with your life.
Things will be ruined if you open the box
2007-01-30 14:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by simplesolutions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you.re a chump in the bunk punk,why mess with a married womand if your single.and hope you don,t want her for a wife because she,ll do the same to you .GET A LIFE CREEP
2007-01-30 14:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by indm45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've already had a vasectomy.....sorry. It AINT mine!!!!
2007-01-30 14:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋