2007-01-30 06:47:42 · 22 answers · asked by LaLa-Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I remember losing my virginity like it was yesterday. I was scared, shy, and excited that I would be joining the "adult sex" world. To be honest the hype behind sex is not all it is cracked up to be.
Remember your virginity is all you have a women and the only thing you can keep as long as you want! Hold on to it and dont just give it away.
It hurt pretty bad, even if you pleasure yourself, and a tampon is nothing like a penis! Be prepared to bleed. Its worth it if your honestly prepared to be with this person, but its not worth the pain of the tearing and bleeding and cramps and pain if your just doing it to lose your virginity.
Its painful. Make sure he knows your a virgin so that he is very gentle with you and he can take his time so that you can enjoy it.
Good Luck
2007-01-30 07:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by HeidiCode 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking how bad does it hurt to lose your virginity you are too young to lose it. You will know you are ready to enter into a physical relationship with a young man when you have been with him and the love making naturally progresses. Perhaps you need to step back and examine your reasons for asking this question? Are you being presssured by a boyfriend to go to a level that you are not ready to? Is it a peer pressure thing? You need to do what is right for YOU, no one else. Good luck.
2007-01-30 06:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I remember correctly, it wasn't to bad. It was slightly uncomfortable the first couple of times, almost feels like cramps. If you use tampons for a while before you have sex the first time that will help too. The tampon will break your hymen (or pop your cherry if you prefer) if not all then most of the way. That tearing is usually the most painful part. Just remember to be as relaxed as you can be and have a bottle of lube handy. Have fun! Good luck! :)
2007-01-30 06:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking physically or mentally, because physically not so much, but if you and I do mean you choose the wrong partner they you can spend the rest of you life asking your self what was I thinking" because loosing your virginity is opening a door to an active sex life and all its consequences, Which by the way are many and deadly serious, so before you decide to go for it, be wise and educate your self fully on parenting, Living with HIV?AIDS. rape, assault, and all the rest of the stuff that goes along with a hot date.
2007-01-30 07:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt in different ways. It depends on "who" the person is and you're reasons for deciding for losing it. Don't do it for the wrong ones.. That would be the worst hurt !
2007-01-30 07:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by chelko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the tyra banks show "sex ed 101" It said if you have pleasured yourslf down there and used a tampon and the guy knows what hes doing it shouldn't hurt at all. But if you havn't done those things don't go there for a while lol.
2007-01-30 06:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by sup. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have deflowered seveal virgins in my time..
I am of above average size..
Done properly and with TLC...
It is not usually more than mild discomfort ..
Perhaps a momentary "stinging" as the hymen tears
but certainly not anything to worry about...
Extra lube and a couple of drinks is helpful...
2007-01-30 06:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the guy-- how enormous your vagina is initially, in case you have ripped your hymen already... i understand that some million/3 of the human beings say it would not harm in any respect, a million/3 say it harm yet grew to become into ok, and a million/3 mentioned it grew to become into the worst soreness they had of their existence. (from what I even have observed) regrettably for me, it felt like somebody grew to become into actually taking their elbow and shoving up my privates. It grew to become into the worst soreness in my existence, yet it quite is in my view me. some human beings mentioned it genuinely felt stable, probable because of the fact they only had a much better vagina or an already-ripped hymen!
2016-11-23 14:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on many things. depends on if somone has been down there before, no sex wise just down there. if so then it wont hurt as much. If the girl has had no experience down there, she better be prepared for the first 10 seconds.!
2007-01-30 06:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to much...Its more like a real good hurt. Just wonderful
2007-01-30 06:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋