Ok this is a long story but I will try to make it short and sweet. There is this guy that I know that is always staring at me and he doesn't mind if I catch him. I have known the guy for a couple of years and have talked to him a hand full of times. Everytime we have talked he is friendly and tries to carry on a conversation. The thing is I am married and he knows it. I just got married a few months ago, and when we first met I was dating my husband. Whenever we have talked most of the time he asks about my husband. Not long ago I went out with some family and friends and he went also (my husband was not there). He sat right in front of me when there were plenty of chairs anywhere else, and I just happened to look at him because he is sitting directly in front of me and he looked at me straight in the eyes so I smiled at him just to be nice. This guy just kept eye contact until finally I turned my head. What is the deal with this guy? Does this guy like me or think I am weird?
2007-01-30 06:19:56 · 23 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He likes and he wants you to know. He's trying to be confident so you'll think he is THE man. Keep your husband!
2007-01-30 06:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by snak3s2001 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you. The first time I read this I thought he was trying to bury his crush so he could be friends with you without making things too weird, and the second time I thought he was trying to be attractive to you. Then I decided:
You might want to stay away, but if he is sweet and you enjoy his company you could help him find a girlfriend. I doubt he is going to make a move or anything (these kind of guys aren't the wife-stealing type)--he has a crush and knows it will be unrequited. He doesn't want to lose you as a friend but can't stop being weird because he does like you. That's his situation--how you deal with it is up to you.
2007-01-30 14:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is infactuated with you. Probably too shy or doesn't think he is good enough to have asked you out before you were married. As for now I think likely he is hanging around because if you would end up not married he thinks he would have a second chance.
2007-01-30 14:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ole Charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he is creepy.
He seems like he doesn't care if you are married or not. He may wants to have an affair with you. That shows he lacks of moral. May be he wants to tempt you if he thinks you are weak in turning people down or stupid and easy to manipulate.
I will say totally ignore him or even shuff him when he tries to talk to you.
There is certain creepiness in him.
2007-01-30 14:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either thinks you are weird, or that you are attractive. Look into a mirror. Do you see a good looking woman looking back at you? If so, he is staring because he likes your looks. If you see an ugly woman in the mirror, then he's staring because he thinks you're weird.
2007-01-30 14:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be dangerous.
Ask your husband to have a talk with him. When he finds that you told your hubby about him, he should get the message and hopefully back off.
2007-01-30 14:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to find out if you are happy in your marriage and letting you know he wants you. Keep your husband You wouldn't want a man that doesn't voice his feelings.
2007-01-30 14:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he asking about your husband? It sounds like he might be a little obsessed with you, even knowing that you're unavailable. If his staring is really bothering you, ask him to stop, and if he doesn't, tell him that you will begin legal proceedings to stop him. Good luck.
2007-01-30 14:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im thinking hes weird, or in love , hes on the outside looking in just waiting for his chance
2007-01-30 14:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's definitely after you, he wants nothing more in the world for you to give up your husband and reveal your undying true love for him... tell him that his staring makes you uncomfortable and see what he says.
2007-01-30 14:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by gigi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋