When me and my boyfriend of 2 years make love. Its great but I wish he would be more intimate. He kisses me afterward but not much during. We'll start foreplay but then i think he just want to 'put it in already' What can i do to help the passion and foreplay before hand?
2007-01-30 06:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by Jme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have talked to him and he always says he will but when it comes down he just says " I want you NOW or lets go!"
2007-01-30 06:23:18 · update #1
take control and tease, tease, tease...sometimes you have to show a man what you want...
2007-01-30 06:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by tx girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to him about what's bothering you. Tell him that making love with him would be even better with more foreplay. Give him a demonstration by using the moves on him before you have sex. Make sure you both have at least some underwear on in the beginning, that way things won't move to far too fast.
Also, if he's responsive to it all, then let him know that it doesn't have to be that way every single time. You can have a quickie once in a whlie, too.
2007-01-30 06:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie832 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not a mindreader, sweetheart. If you want more than he's been giving for the past two years, my suggestion would be to tell him what you're craving. And, make sure too that you're not trying to rush through it because you're unhappy with 'the way it is'. It's never too late to switch it up in the bedroom!
2007-01-30 06:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by SiC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's just the way guys are. They really need the closeness but have a hard time sometimes expressing that. Just tell him you need a little cuddling first. I used to tell my husband that all the time until he got the message. Now it's a win/win situation for both of us.:)
2007-01-30 06:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sal D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TX Girl has it down ... tease him ... try foreplay a little longer ... play games ... dress up and do some role play ... take charge and slow things down ... and show him exactly what you want ... !
2007-01-30 07:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take control. Or try to get him in the "mood" by touching him gently and kissing him and stuff. You know, be creative. Its not like anyone is watching( or rather should be watching).
2007-01-30 06:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he needs to slow down and that you need time to thoroughly enjoy it and that just because he wants to go straight for the goal doesn't mean he cant put alittle more time into meeting your needs before he starts rushing into getting his need met...
2007-01-30 06:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, or you can asks if he does it out of love.
My bf did that to me before and i was like "hey, give me more attention during sex!"
2007-01-30 06:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Yeppers! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is young and with age hopefully his love making skills will get better.
2007-01-30 06:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever talked to him and eqplained how you feel n what you would like?
2007-01-30 06:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by blue121 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋