i met a man few week ago and since i was planning to move in
his town,and i don't really know any one, he ask me to come and stay with him and when i get use to the area i will decide to stay or what i want..
and also we can start a serious relationship
help help help
2007-01-30 06:10:21 · 6 answers · asked by erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You might very well be saying "help" if you go to stay with a man that you just met in a town that you are not familiar with. Beginning a relationship being dependent on another is not a good way to begin. Something just does not seem right about this entire situation. And, a promise of starting a serious relationship seems a bit naive to me. Have you met his family? Has he met your family? You didn't mention where you met him, or your ages, but if you met him online and have not actually met him in person, then be doubly careful.
Best luck to you. Be careful.
2007-01-30 06:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a chance that he's a nice guy just trying to help out. Perhaps, in the last few weeks you've learned everything you should know about him. Maybe he has fallen in love with you and that's why he suggested starting a relationship.
Unfortunatly, there's no way to know for sure. There are a lot of creepy people out there. What's worse, is that some of them come off as perfectly normal, nice, and caring. If I were you, I wouldn't gamble on my life like that. Move there, sure, but do it on your own.
2007-01-30 14:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know anything about who this man is or what kind of person he is. You haven't known him long enough too yet. Be very careful with him. If your moving to the area then do so, by yourself. He you want to try dating this guy then go for it. But don't jump the gun so quickly...
2007-01-30 14:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, you don't know him and do you really want to be tied down in a new town. Move into your own place and meet other people, you owe yourself that. Be selfish, tell him no, no and no again.
2007-01-30 14:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it!! You barely know him, of course you can hang out w/him,but living w/him right now....little early. You dont know much about him/what he could do to you (hurt you etc...ive been there trust me it hurts.) By what yor saying Id be afraid of him rushing me into a relationship or be forceful if you lived w/him.... Id just get my own place, take it slow n hang out w/him! Good Luck!!!
2007-01-30 14:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Em_Lou02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to go along with most other answers. This sounds like a very bad idea to me. It could be bad enough to get you hurt or even killed.
2007-01-30 14:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋