Started 2 months ago when I told him I had a crush on him. Said he had a small bit of a cruch on me sence we first met, but because I was so honest he was going to be to it is mostly sexual. I'm married ,this all to begin with isnt a good thing. We have always flirted even around my hasband. He thinks its funny. He thinks everything is inocent. Sence this time 2 months ago we have been alone a few times and we never talk about it. Last week My friend got drunk though and I was trying to talk him into staying a while before he drove home. it was snowing and cold and I had no coat on so instead of givin me his coat like normal he just huged me and said got to warm ya up. Hes huged me before it was no big deal. Then he looked down and we kissed. It was perfect it was like the movie kind. My marrage isnt perfect I will be the 1st to admit it.I work he dont I clean he dont 3 times he has hit and hurt me. I cant smoke or drink or get a tatto. I have made my bed do I have to lie in it?
2007-01-30 05:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy Girl161925 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looser men come from looser men. If you are looking at a guy look at his Father first. My husbands dad is the same way.
2007-01-30 05:24:02 · update #1
i think he likes you too. ask him out. that is the only way you will ever know for sure. i think that this may me healthier for you than the situation you are in know where you are being abused in your marriage. divorce the loser. you deserve better. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-30 05:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on....you women ***** and moan about men cheating and give men such a raw deal. Look at you. You need to be ashamed of yourself. If that marriage is that bad leave. Why are you committing adultery? And no the kiss wasn't perfect. It was a soiled kiss. There was no honor in it at all. Ask yourself if he thought so much of you why would he be having you engage in violating your marriage vows? I gather he really has no love for you just lust. You know that thing between your legs that gets wet when touched...yeah that...that's what he wants...nothing more. Have some respect about yourself and get a divorce before you make a fool of yourself and your family.
How do I know you even telling the truth about him hitting you? I say that just to show you that when you do something equally wrong you cast doubt on the truth you are speaking.
2007-01-30 13:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the other guy you have to take care of your marriage first. If he likes you he'll respect that and wait. THEN divorce your husband. You don't deserve to be treated that way and abused, no one does. Don't listen to people who tell you there is no excuse to cheat, why it may not be right at all, no one has been in your shoes, so they don't need to judge. You do need to hold off on any desires you may have to pursue this other relationship, until you end this abusive marriage. It is not going to get better, but worse. If he finds you are cheating or even considering it, I fear for your safety. Good luck.
2007-01-30 13:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always two sides to the story,but if you are going to be with this other man why not just leave your husband to save you both some pain.You said he has 'hurt' you before? so how do you think he will react when he finds out you've been cheating?? If the other guy is what you want, i would leave before it went any further beacause i don't believe on cheating on the one your with.
2007-01-30 13:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by honestanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your husband especially if he's hit you!! you deserve to be happy..who's he to tell you you cant get a tattoo.... i HATE controlling men! i left one 1year ago, and being without someone is way better than listening to him ***** about everything i do and dont do.... If this thing with the new guy works, then right on, but even if it doesnt, girl ditch your husband... you have the job, he doesnt, you can support yourself, he cant... i want to know where all the loser guys are coming from...
2007-01-30 13:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no acceptable reason to cheat on your husband. None whatsoever!
That being said, this guy sounds like a real JERK! Divorce him and hook up with this other guy. Don't put up with a good for nothing, abusive layabout. If you have kids, take them with you, but leave now!!!
2007-01-30 13:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by stn1225 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do 1st off. But if you're unhappy with your husband perhaps you should leave him if that's where your heart is before even worrying about this other guy.
2007-01-30 13:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk off (your husband) and you are cheater. Get a divorce and then see about this other relationship.
2007-01-30 13:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and let him know how u feel
2007-01-30 13:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋