Is virginity a good thing of should I get rid of it?

Question

How do I get rid of it if I do not like it?

Answer 1

it's a good thing to wait until you find someone that you love and will be in a monagamous relatioship.also there is no worries of pregnancy or diseases

Answer 2

Serious answer.

Virginity is a dividing line. A line between innocence and carnal knowledge.

I'm sure that 99% of the kids that have lost theirs , feel that they have arrived.

Just as sure as Everyone over 40 , even though they will never forget the first one , will agree that the quality is nil.

You can do do the deed , but are mentally and emotionally ill prepared.


Sex is a skill that you learn and constantly changes. Like any untutored skill , you'll learn bad habits.

What is lost , is most precious and can never be regained.

Losing ones virginity to early gains you nothing. You can definitely lose. All of your relationships change. Family friends, parents.




Timing is essential

Answer 3

You have sex to get rid of it. However, don't get rid of it until you're absolutely ready. And yes, virginity is a good thing.

Answer 4

If you are 40 and still a Virgin, I would say yes.. drop it like a bad habit.. If you are 12 then I would say, hang onto it a while longer.
As for how do you get rid of it??
Never mind the first part of my answer, it just occured to me that if you don't how to get rid of it you probably should just hang on to it.

Answer 5

Yes, it's a good thing. You don't have to worry about STD's or an unwanted pregnancy or a guy taking off because he's used you and that's all he wanted. And you talk about getting rid of it like taking out the garbage. Have more pride in yourself, young lady, respect your body.

Answer 6

Virginity is a good thing to have unless you have been married for more than a day. Virginity means you are probably free from diseases like Aids, that you value marriage, and if you are of a faith that has moral rules about sex that you value your God. It also says that you value your future spouse so much that you do not want them endangered by your past sex partners.

If you are not afraid of STD's, think marriage is stupid, have no God that you want to please and are willing to risk having an unwanted child it is of course your choice.

Answer 7

The best time to 'get rid' of your virginity is when it feels right for you.

Don't be pressured into losing something you can't get back - you'll regret not waiting for someone who you care about & cares for you too.

Answer 8

Relationships--

We become like the people we associate with. It's in the Bible, Proverbs 13:20, NIV. "He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."

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Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, Ps 1:1, KJV

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Answer 9

there are some human cultures which treasure virginity to some
extent. it is a personal choice really. how else can you get rid of
it but to do the ''"real thing"

Answer 10

We are all born with it. How we get rid of it is up to you. As a guy, just the act of masturbating will break any barriers that you might have developed.

Answer 11

Keep it until you find the woman you want to stay with for the rest of your life. I wish i would have kept mine until i found the right man. That's what most men want in a female is sex and it is really really bad turnoff. It's called taking advantage. Unless you have found the right woman of your dreams then i say keep it.