My problem is that I am afraid that my husband will be turned off me. ( I have always tried to stay toned & trim...for myself as well as him.) I keep thinking that he is looking at muisc videos/magazines etc & longing for these women.
2007-01-30 05:02:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Emily
Your husband sees you as the BEAUTIFUL mother of his child.
Pregnancy is (fortunately!) a temporary condition. You both know this. And it may surprise you to know that many men find pregnant women very attractive :)
Every woman is different. My daughter is expecting in April and is already larger than I was while I was pregnant with her at nine months. Her husband still adores her!
Don't worry...just enjoy this special time in your life.
2007-01-30 05:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww bless. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I'm 40 weeks pregnant and feel huge. All through this pregnancy I have been paranoid that my husband wanted to trade me for a slimmer, prettier, less-pregnant model but trust me, thats not the case. Pregnancy hormones are making you feel paranoid and your boyfriend adores you. You're carrying his child and that makes a man love you even more (although they may not admit it) They gain a new type of respect for you. Any woman that can carry their child is a real woman.
Not these brainlessly, stick-thin airheads on magazines. Don't worry. I made that mistake and panicked all the way. Just relax and enjoy your pregnancy. Good luck!
2007-01-30 06:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be having twins if you are that big already. It is normal to feel this way. I felt the same way with my first pregnancy, but in fact my husband was turned on by my pregnancy. Maybe your husband feels uncomfortable, or worried that he will hurt the baby. You should reassure him that everything is fine and you can continue to have sex the way you normally do, unless of course your Dr. says not too. Remember all guys look at these women, and yes they do think that they are attractive, but he obviously finds you attractive too otherwise you wouldn't be in the situation that you are in. Try different things in the bedroom to spice up your sex life, I almost guarantee that he will be thinking of you and only you! Congrats and Good Luck.
2007-01-30 05:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant with his baby (or possibly babies if you're showing at 10 weeks - have you had a scan yet?!) what could be more wonderful to him than the sight of your body growing because his child is inside you. For goodness sake don't get hung up over it, you are pregnant not fat and if you start worrying or worse dieting you will be causing problems for your baby. Relax and enjoy. You can't literally eat for two but you can afford a little leeway in your eating habits.
2007-01-30 05:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by KB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that is way too early to be displaying. With my 1st it develop into approximately 5 months as quickly as I had a tummy and 2nd time because of the fact I weighed somewhat greater, I concealed it much greater effectual, did no longer teach until i develop into previous due 6 months. although everybody is distinctive, now and returned that is because of the fact of fluid retention, etc. Morning illness starts fairly early, not sure approximately cravings. Cramping is surprisingly usual too except that is accompanied via bleeding or decrease decrease back discomfort wherein case you're able to get regarded at. wish that helps x
2016-11-01 21:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this moment in time you should feel more feminine that ever.
I am 7 months pregnant and i think a pregnant body is the sexiest thing about being a woman Don't worry about staying trim let it all hang out YOUR A WOMAN AND PROUD
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2007-01-30 05:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give this one a second thought. Most men find their wives to quite sexy when they're in the family way, and I'm sure your husband is no exception.
You're not "fat" after all, you're pregnant. I cannot think of a more beautiful condition for a woman to be in.
2007-01-30 05:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I found my wife looked more sexy !!! I think most men in general do find a pregnant women attractive. Talk to your partner how you are feeling, I'm sure there is nothing to worry about
All the best
2007-01-30 05:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry chick he will love it because the bigger you get the more he can see your growing baby and feel a bit more like a part of it, than it just being you.
But he may go off sex a bit (well so could you) but dont think its anything to do with your bump my fella didnt like it because he thought he would hurt the baby.
Just talk to him explain how you are feeling and hopefully he will reasure you
2007-01-30 06:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by jd1mummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6 weeks and experiancing the same thing. I look about 5 months pregnant. Mind you i was a bigger lady when i got pregnant. Its nothing to worry about though. Your body has released hormones to relax your abdominals for when the baby starts to grow against them ( so they dont tear). If it bothers you that much see your Ob/Gyn.
2007-01-30 05:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋