2007-01-30 04:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont be so martyr.guys who hit their gfs are losers and your bf is a loser.i just hope he wont kill you someday if you decided to stay with him.leave him there's a lot guys out there.
2007-02-02 22:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend beats you, he is no kind of man and you dont need to be with him. No female deserves to be with an abusive boyfriend. You may love him but obviously he doesnt care about you as much if he can treat you and hurt you. You are not a child and do not need ot be punished. Step up to him and say listen @sshole keep your hands off me and treat me like your girlfriend or im gone. And if he continues, find a real MAN.
2007-01-30 13:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important? Your safety, or love? If you have to question his love for your safety, and if he thinks abusive behaviour is love, then something is very wrong with both of your emotional state of mind. It appears for the moment, he has you in a state of fear. That is emotional abuse. You are responsible for yourself, which includes not only your happiness, but your protection, too. It begins with a healthy self-esteem that would never tolerate such behaviour! I strongly advise you to seek counseling and overcome your present mindset, which will edify your confidence and give you the self-respect, courage, and support you need @ this time, to make healthy decisions/choices, now and for a lifetime. Remember: Your boyfriend is not the only fish in the sea. There are alot of guys out there, who know how to love & respect a lady, without resorting to any type of destructive or abusive behaviour. Love yourself enough, to do the right thing, (terminating a relationship is not the end of the world/ broken hearts do heal) and it will guarantee you of finding the right guy! I wouldn't want to miss him, for the world!
2007-01-30 13:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend beats you and you decide not to leave then you deserve whatever he gives you. I believe in the idea that once you are hit you leave. Because no matter how nice they are afterwards and how bad they feel about hitting you, they will do it again. I could never be with someone who doesn’t respect me enough to not treat me like an animal and beat me.
2007-01-30 13:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giiiirrrrrrlllllllllll, Let's keep this real! If you continue to let him beat your a** then you deserve it.(I'm sorry to say it that way), but LOVE does not give you a black eye, a knock upside the head, verbal abuse, or death ( in a relationship that isn't right). Because if you do decide to stay; then that is where you are heading. You are stronge (obviously young) person and there should not be a question as to do you love yourself. I was in a relationship where he just took control of everything. I just knew he was never going to beat me, but it only took one time to put his hands on me,because I beat the shi* out of him with his own belt then I left his a** bleeding. Honey for me it only takes one time to do anything to hurt me; and bets believe it's on. Take timeout to find yourself; ask yourself what do you want to do with your life. Child, you have plenty of time to LOVE!!!
Best Wishes,
Kimberly H
2007-02-01 00:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As rude as this answer is going to sound,and you said that you did not want to leave.ANSWER:Next time any beating is going to take place,pick up the biggest lead pipe you can find & you do the beatting.He will do the leaving.Surley you dont love getting your *** beat,as much as you love him.Just to let you know,Beatting women up is a sickness,with a slim chance of recovering.Take leagle action if need be please!!Think wise & Take care,God bless
2007-01-30 13:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by American_Dago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has said what i wanted to so, so all is left is you love him so much and feel you can't do better and can handle the way he is treating you and CAN NOT SEE IT'S A PROBLEM AND THE NEXT COULD BE DEATH.
you can not hear I am sorry 6 feet under so how do you feel walking into the ER with your face bashed and blood everywhere?
apparently you can take a blow, feel no pain or embarrasment.
THEN STAY AND KEEP GETTING YOUR A** BEAT!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 13:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't want a guy to even try to beat me up. Slugging him in the mouth to see how HE likes it might backfire. I'm sorry, you're gonna havta dump this guy. If you don't want to leave him, then make sure you go with him to every single anger management class he takes. Please sweetie, leave this guy and move to another location no phone or anything until this guy is taken care of for good.
2007-01-30 13:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend loved you he'd respect you and never want you to hurt in any way. What you should do is get out of this relatonship and FAST. Perhaps get into counseling and work on your self-esteem because there may be something inside of you that makes you feel you deserve this (AND YOU DON'T!).
2007-01-30 13:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy beat you now, he will definitely beat you in the future. Unless you want to be beaten up again, if not, leave him.
2007-01-30 22:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man beats on a woman they like to do it because it gives them a since of power he makes it look like you do everything wrong that you are not good enough for no one but him WRONG!!!! you are good enough..... remember he doesn't love you the way that you think he does a man doesn't love you if he hurts you remember that and god will always be by your side no matter what....and my advice to you as much as you love him you have to accept the fact that he will neaver change and that you have to leave him as soon as you can before it is too late please girl you are way better than that you are not a dog.... be strong you can do it many of us woman did it before trust me.
2007-01-30 13:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by sweetsss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋