2007-01-30 04:24:25 · 17 answers · asked by HELEN D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust is almost impossible to resurrect once it has been lost. Hopefully, his past indiscretion has taught him to be more open about his whereabouts and plans for the day to help ease your mind. Having been in your situation as well, I know that it is something that is always in the back of your mind. The questions, doubts, and insecurities will pop up at any given time. I truly recommend some type of counseling that needs to be for the both of you. Time and positive actions on his part will help. Good Luck .
2007-01-30 04:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have the feeling he is cheating he probably is. He will have phone calls that he needs to leave the room to take. He will be gone till all hours of the night, or will lie about who he's been with. He will shower as soon as he gets home or will refuse to let you shower with him. He will ask the question you have just asked him ( Where have you been? Where have I been?). The is to buy time to think up excuses. If there are no kids involved, seriously think about leaving. If there are kids, weight out your situation and decide if its worth your nerves and mental stability to stay with someone who has BROKEN ALL OF YOUR TRUST!!! I was cheated on but have stayed because I want my daughter to have a "happy family" yet this has caused me to become numb and bitter on the inside while pretending everything is okay. Yikes. I hope he didn't cheat on you!
2007-01-30 04:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by ErinRae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a better chance than if a woman was unfaithful.
Forgiveness and forgetfulness is needed to keep him clean. Most men justify their cheating to them selves.
First his habits should have changed. He should have no problem with you getting his cell phone messages for him while he's driving.
He should be spending less alone time. That is as long as you are not pushing him away.
Think of fun things you can do together. Please don't nag him.
If he still needs his private , sneak away time, I would be suspicious.
I speak for myself, I'm a long married man. But when men start looking, sniffing around. They seek alone time and privacy.
As long as the sex is good and you are pleasant. He should be completely honest and open with you.
The actions of your man is in your hands.
2007-01-30 04:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows if he is being unfaithful if you've found no proof. Just because he cheated once, guys can actually change thier ways. But if you look for cheating all the time, you'll always find it.
2007-01-30 04:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey. If he's done it once, he'll do it again. I've been in that boat a few times and it always turns out the same.......you want to truly believe they've changed and that they'll never do it again. But then your stomach churns and you get that 'feeling' that makes you want to puke. It's called a 'gut-instinct'. Trust it and get out before you catch a disease or worse!
2007-01-30 04:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer this question, I would tell you believe in yourself. Only, you know if he is faithful to you if you believe in your heart. Then, if you don't right there is nothing wrong with asking questions. A marriage is a special bond that connects two souls as one body.
2007-01-30 04:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Quentin Grzyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know if someone is being faithful or not, you just have to be able to trust they are. When that trust is broken it is very hard to repair. Follow your gut, but be careful not to get consumed by it.
2007-01-30 04:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by D Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know for sure unless you follow him. Once the trust issue is broken, its rough from there. Good luck!
2007-01-30 04:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't know for sure but some good signs are:
he won't let you answer his cell phone or look at his calls on there.
he doesn't want you logging into his email or reading over his shoulder
he has gaps of time when you don't know where he is.
2007-01-30 04:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marred woman know her husband very well .if you are under 40
you should have a sex with you husband Evey other night or moor
if you do not do that,you husband ,is cooking with a Arther woman
do not forget if you do not play good with him, he defiantly will go wherever hi can, to fin that satisfaction
2007-01-30 04:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋