can some one help me the ex wife from my fiance is mad she and my fiance have been devorced since 10 years i am with my fiance sinc 1 year and she is jelous and tries to make arguments with us.
she is also married again and we are trying to keep a good contact with her because of the children.
last week the daughter had a car crash and was in intensive care me and my fiance went over to the daughters place to take the dog out and feed it then the x came in and started to say funny comments i ignore it mostly because i have nothing to do with the problems that they have with each other.can some one suggest a way out for us all
2007-01-30 03:52:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i met my fiance 9 years after the devorce and i always stay friendly to her,
2007-01-30 05:59:01 · update #1
His exwife seems so immature and jealous. Ignore her when you have to. If she does something that cannot be ignored, tell your fiance to deal with her. If that doesnt work, confront her but do not make a scene. Try to remain the one with class. Hope all goes well.
2007-01-30 04:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Doris A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking best step by ignoring her comments but unfortunately you cannot avoid this lady because of the kids whom she visits. If you are getting married to this man do it now the go ahead then as a wife you get all rights to keep this ex wife keep her mouth shut. I don’t find any other way out till the daughter of your fiancé get married then will stop his ex wife visit from your home. Till then keep your mouth shut & avoid her as much as you can, because such jealous ladies can not be mended by other way.
2007-01-30 23:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there someone who could mediate a conference with you, your fiance' his ex, and her husband? One very important "rule" in divorce, is don't put the kids in the middle. She could still have bad feelings towards your man, bitterness. Jealous-is not a good thing either. Her husband is her man now, and she needs to "get over it". It's been 10 yrs.! I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-01-30 12:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everytime she says something ignore her and pretend that she is not even there . she sounds like a child . did you meet your fiance while he was still married to her ? if you did then she might be seeing you as a home wrecker you know it is possible that she considers you the reason for the divorce . but in any case just ignore her and pretend she is not there . good luck .
2007-01-30 13:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say that the flame of the the first love doesn't go out. Stands to reason doesn't it? They have shared their bodies, minds, hearts in total intimacy. Can that be forgotten?
The things that lead down to a breakdown of a marriage....can they ever cool memories of the first flame? To a man, the married intimacy is to know someone is on his side, to a woman it is to align herself to his side. So man and woman come together, or so I think.
Carnal lust is a fact of life. Can one forget it?
Intimacy and cuddling is so lovely. Can one forget it?
The first child....Who can forget him/her?
Doesn't it stand to reason she still feels connected and perhaps let down too in some way?
Dont feel bad about this. Be compassionate and understanding without taking sides. If you love the guy so much and so much and so much, the muck in your face will turn to flowers becoz your goodness will stand it. And you owe that to yourself.
Does that make sense?
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2007-01-30 15:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Hey hey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go and smash her face and it red
and then ask her the reason for that as she is not your fiance
or the other way is that just have a friendly conference with them
and come to an appropriate conclusion
2007-01-30 12:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋