What do you feel is more important in marriage and why? What is the difference between sex and intimacy in a relationship? Do you feel that intimacy lasts longer then sex or does sex last longer then intimacy..... I want to see input and feedback on this subject... Thanks in advance everyone:) What would you rather have more of in your marriage sex or intimacy?
2007-01-30 03:41:56 · 4 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even though i am a man and i like sex alot i still feel that Intimacy in marriage is much more important... Intimacy lasts longer then sex does and is much better and romantic and fun... Sex is fast and gratifying for the moment but it is quick with no emotions and you feel empty afterwards as there is no love involved..... Intamacy defintiley lasts longer then sex as intamacy grows and bonds people together and it goes beyond just the bedroom as sex is only a physical act and does not last near as long! I would rather have more intimacy in my marriage the sex will come later lol. Great question by the way:)
2007-01-30 04:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in the first place girls now days have lost romance. Girls see romantic guys as weak or fake. They see it on TV and read it in books but they don't practice it. With that said sex can definitely lead to false intimacy but It doesn't mean it cant work in the end. I think if two people that are romantic with each other and think alike and appreciate each other, intimacy will be much deeper and powerful. It's very hard for a guy today to keep romance alive. I guess I think of Intimacy and romance interchangeable. i could be wrong. i just miss my girl.
2016-03-15 02:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want as much intimacy as I can get in my marriage. But, when I am in love with the person I am intimate with, the sex can only be great. I think that both aspects of the physical intent are important in a loving and caring marriage. Men love sex, and women love romance, there has to be a balance of the two. Intimacy is great!
2007-01-30 04:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think my husband and I have sex enough. However, when my husband and I get intimate, it feels like its our secret place. Intimacy is a whole bunch of things whirled together.....sex, comfort, togetherness, love, peacefulness, admiration. I'd take intimacy over sex if I had to chose.
Intimate moments grow our relationship.
Sex makes us happy.
Can I choose to have more of both?????
2007-01-30 06:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋