All of us are born with the innate instinct to establish our societal identity within our society. We're animals and we have to make our place in the pecking order by proving we're stronger than the next person.
Some animals flash their feathers and dance with each other to prove dominance....others fight it out to show who's best. *Every* animal does it and always will.
Bullying stems from a need to prove dominance over others and establish an identity in the group...but at the same time it's from a lack of other, more acceptable means of expression. Children who bully others will always see themselves as lacking in education or artistic ability or athleticism or popularity etc.
Even simple things like giving gold stars to children in second or third grade can lead to bullying....because the established system of reward and status implied by the gold star can often leave the child with no other means to express his or her individuality.
The only method that really works to stop bullying at its source is to give the child as many methods as possible to express himself. Don't give stars *just* for math, give them for artwork, and for helping in the classroom, and for neatness etc. Every child has a talent. Just find that talent and let them express themselves.
2007-01-30 07:12:33
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answered by randkl 6
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People bully because they don't have anything better to do, and they want to make themselves to feel more important than they want to be. Just given a chance they will pick on anybody that they think isn't up to their standards, which sounds ridiculous, but true. What makes people bullies, is when they pick on more than one person at a time. Hope that helps:)
2007-01-30 05:43:24
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answered by Ferris N. Wilcox, Jr 2
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childrens make relaxing of something because of the fact they are childrens. that is what they do. there is not any tease info call. and accidentally you discover one there are maximum of alternative issues to be teased approximately different than a attractiveness. i'm no longer attempting to be all doom and gloom although that's the certainty of it. With that I say %. besides the fact which you like. i do no longer see something inherently incorrect with the names you picked so i does no longer be apprehensive approximately teasing. i might exchange Dalis to Dallas although yet I additionally like Cheyenne Iris. the middle call for Brantley relies upon on your final call. If that could be a mushy G like George then i might %. Ian, yet while that could be a stressful G like Gulliver i might %. Jacob. I desire Jacob as Brantley Ian repeats the -ee sound on the tip of Brantley and beginning up of Ian. i'm hoping this helps!
2016-11-01 21:29:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Aggressive overbearing parents have a high tendency to produce bullies.
2007-01-30 18:09:44
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answered by King Midas 6
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Bullying comes from carrying around pain/insecurity. Children who bully don't know how to deal with their pain constructively, so they take it out on other innocent kids.
2007-01-30 06:03:09
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answered by Anonymous
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they are usually raised by bullies
2007-01-30 23:33:46
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answered by holly 7
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Another form of control.
2007-01-30 12:42:51
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answered by solisue 2
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BULLIES ................. THEY WANT TO SEE HOW FAR THEY CAN PUSH. THEY ARE INSECURE, WITH SOME FAMILY PROBLEMS. FEELINGS, FOR OTHER PERSONS. ARE GONE WITH IN THEM. YOU HAVE TO WAKE THEM UP TO THEIR PROBLEM.
WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD, IN CRAMMER SCHOOL. THIS BOY NAMED JOHNNY, TALLER THAN I. I WAS THE SMALLEST IN THE CLASS. HE ALWAYS CAME UP TO ME LOOKING DOWN AT ME GAVE ME A BAD TIME.
ONE DAY I HAD ENOUGH. I JUMPED UP I HIGH AS I COULD AND PUNCHED HIM IN THE NOSE. HIS NOSE WAS BLEEDING AND HE WAS CRYING. HE SAID " WHY DID I HIT HIM, HE WAS ONLY PLAYING". HE NEVER BOTHER ME AGAIN.
2007-01-30 07:17:31
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answered by J 4
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bullies transmit their own problems onto others that apear weeker than them. its all about fear it.
2007-01-30 06:05:28
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answered by Anonymous
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their just like that
2007-01-30 11:49:44
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answered by Just Been Jogging 1
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