If a nice and hot looking guy who's a casual acquaintance at most takes the initiative to come up and talk to you about doing and performing intense oral for you with absolutely no other expectations, how would you react? Would you think of it as cheating and feel guilty about it? Or would you just say "hey, that was awesome, I didn't have to sleep with him, and it was a quite an orgasmic experience"?
2007-01-30 02:40:16 · 73 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would only do this with my husband and that is it... Doing it with some other guy is still cheating and unfaitful even though it is not intercourse.... yes i would feel guilty and i would think it is cheating. No this chick would not go for it and I am not or would not be willing..... Anyway my husband knows how to please me in that department very well thank you!
2007-01-30 02:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A casual acquaintance (at most) comes up and tells me he wants to perform intense oral on me. I'd say something along the lines of "Stay the he!! away from me or I'll call the cops". I would also tell my significant other who would most likely beat him stupid. But, hey, that's just me.
2007-01-30 03:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically any type of sexual contact is cheating. However I can see your point and alot of women would jump at the chance to have an intense encounter with a hot guy and no strings attached. Especially since alot of men don't do oral for women, but expect it for themselves.
2007-01-30 03:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I could think about is herpes. Ya know the virus can be carried in the mouth too. I certainly wouldn't risk it for anything if I was single. Oral should remain in a relationship, not on a casual basis. I certainly wouldn't want it just from any guy cause he was good at it or wanted to. That is just nasty. Besides what about VD, you could go ahead and find out later...ewww think on that one!
2007-01-30 04:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if I'm with someone or Casual Acquaintance is with someone it's cheating. Oral is cheating. Kissing is cheating (except for cheek kissing and such). Being intimate with someone in any way is, to most people, cheating - it doesn't even have to be physical.
2007-01-30 03:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by AH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!
2007-01-30 03:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jen (G cup UK) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be cheating and why would you feel guilty? Nowhere in your question did you mention the woman being in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with two consensual adults doing whatever feels good to them. Provided you are not in a relationship.
2007-01-30 03:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by declaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? It is cheating! There is no way my boyfriend would be like oh ok, that's fine! Nor would I because no other girl is going to service him other than me. If I was single, different story, but women who are in relationships and their men view this type of activity as cheating!!!
2007-02-02 17:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not be willing. I'm 42 years old and have yet to see any man I would consider "hot", and besides oral never really did anything for me except put me to sleep.
2007-01-30 03:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely another form of cheating. Anything a man says to you that he wouldn't say in front of your significant other would be considered cheating. I would have stopped him half way through his first sentence and walked away. Whether say anything about it would be if the rude cad followed me and tried to continue on, I then would have said something to my partner
2007-01-30 03:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋