What really bothers you about your wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend??

Question

everybody has things they do that irritate their partners? what do you do that gets to them? what do they do that gets to you?

i guess maureen b is little miss patty perfect.get real we will ask your hubby/boy i`m sure he will have 1-2 little things to tell us

Answer 1

Yes, everybody has things tthat their partners feel irritated sometimes. Nobody in this world is perfect. So far there's no Mr. Right or Ms Right yet.
I always take all the mistake happen only as fact of life, we have to go tru doesnt matter how it is. Coz we are not that perfect, and there's nothing perfect in this world.
So just accept our partner the same way , sure u wont think about anything arritating or nothing that u wont like, sure u take it juz as funny stuff. Thats all.

Answer 2

There is only one thing that REALLY bothers me about my man. His poker playing seems to have taken a front seat and i've been shoved in the back and forgotten. He is SO addicted to texas hold 'em. He comes home from work and sits on the computer for hours and doesn't move.(I think there is a permanent indent where his a.ss goes) If he's not playing online, you'll find him in the casino. He tells me I should be thankful becuz he's not into drugs or out cheating on me. It's hard to be thankful for something when you feel neglected. :( there are days i would love to toss the pc out the window and forget about it!!!!


What bothers him?? He'll tell you I am way too dramatic. Speaking along the lines of our relationship and my insecurities. That's probably the worst of my irritabilities... he tells me at least once a week that i irritate the hell out of him w/ that but he loves me anyway!!!! Thank God!!

Answer 3

I find it amusing that women mainly answered this question. Leads me to believe that women are perfect and rarely, if ever, do anything that bothers our partners! :) I know that's not true though.

I get nervous when I'm out of town on business, and he's at bars without me. So my insecurities get on his nerves. I'm working on it. Past experiences are hard to get over!

Him??? I know that there are things... oh! He leaves wet towels on the bed and cannot for the life of him hit the clothes basket! But he always sends me text messages throughout the week. He tells me how beautiful I am all the time and how lucky he is. So that's why it's easy to overlook all that stuff.

Answer 4

Well Im not sure that I do anything to get on my b/f's nerves except for when we are talking about dinner and i go "i dunno" lol. He gets aggravated but he doesnt get mad, he just laughs and says "what do you WANT" by the way, he is the cook bc he is good and he enjoys it so why not?! well, some little things he does that gets to me, really the only thing is on the weekends he likes to have a few beers. he doesnt drink much at all if any during the week so when he has a few on the weekends and on an empty stomach he gets buzzed pretty quick. he acts so annoying when he is buzzing. im sure everyone does but when your not buzzin right along with him, then its annoying. lol. he gets loud and rude. and he smokes, so thats annoying bc that crap stinks!! he kisses funny. lol. hmmm....wow im on a roll here lol um before i can even take a bite of my food he watches me and hes like "is it good, is it good, how is it?" lol. well WAIT a MINUTE i havent TRIED it yet!!! lol. umm...he cant pronounce some things right but yet when i try to correct him he says whatever i know what it is. lol. okay then mr. smarty pants. he says home depot like this home depp-o (like Johnny Depp) im like NO its home depot like this home deepo. but i guess everyone has their own way of pronouncing things lol. he cant stay awake through a whole movie or game. i will look over at him saying something about it and there he is sitting there SNORING. oh he SNORES!! yeah, thats the worst thing. lol. overall we dont fight or argue. we just laugh and annoy eachother in little ways. its fun. :)

Answer 5

Okay,... let me tell you this: if I had to choose people for my team to win a million bucks, hubby would not be one of them. His lack of common sense isn't even funny anymore. Just the other day he removed the extension I attached to our existing fence, because he said that no way our lovely Chihuahua lady will try to get out when let out in the yard to poop or pee. He bet his life on it that she would not try to get out. Then he left for Thailand (military). Not only did Rosie almost escape.... our roof and wooden fence almost flew away with the tarp that he attached to both, because right now we are having a terrible storm here (Hawaii). Try removing a tarp when the winds are incredibly strong, which I had to, because it looked like it was going to rip off our roof.... I almost flew with it when I tried removing the chords manually- finally I took a scissor and just cut all the chords.
What do I do that gets him? Probably the way I dramatize things that seem nothing to him.
By the way when I told my husband that he wouldn't be in my team, he laughed so hard- I laughed with him- then at him... then with him again. We compliment each other after all..... lol. I love him.

Answer 6

My boyfriend is sooo stingy that he squeaks when he walks.I was married to him for 23 years then divorced him and he will not change.They do not change, but this time, I call the punches on when it's over.Plus he is a complete PIG.Never picks up anything of his.As for me, I know I get on his nerves will my sticking to a routine, I am a time buff, everything at the same time---all the time.But i have to have a schedule.But my plus is, I take care of all my own finances and am very independent.......

Answer 7

well my bf of 4 years annoys me because he's slow. HE takes his sweet time doing everything he needs to do. He takes about 1 hr. to shower, ( he doenst even have long hair) when we're gonna go out- he takes about 1/2 ironing his clothes by the time we get out the door we're alreadt 1/2 to 45 minutes late to where we're gonna go. He irritates me. He's never ontime on dates or anything not even work. Other than that- he's a sweetheart!

Answer 8

I have a hard time saying what i feel without getting emotional and girlie. Thats what irritates my man the most. but I am working on changing that behavior!!

What he does do to bug me? Tell me how to play "Jak and Daxter" and make fun of me everytime I make a mistake on the game..grr

Another thing I do to bug him, Leave doors open to rooms that the heat has been turned off!

Answer 9

I get upset when my husband yells and screams on his day off! He likes to hear himself yell. I get upset when he uses nasty words and calls me awful names. I don't get upset anymore when he ignores me and does not talk to me or make time for me. It is really a blessing! I have tried everything I know to get along with him, but he is bi-polar and just horrible. He can't help it. I have come to accept that I can't change him if he won't take his meds. He says he does not need them. Nothing I do pleases this man, like I said in an earlier question, I will never be able to do enough for him and I have made up my mind to leave soon, very soon!

Answer 10

He snores. Sometimes it bothers me, sometimes it comforts me knowing that he's there even if he is interupting my sleep! He swears too much when he plays video games. He smokes too much, but at least he does it outside since I quit. He tells me random trivia when I'm trying to concentrate on studying, but I do the same to him when he's trying to concentrate and it's worse for him since he has ADHD. He steals the blankets at night. Oh and he's better at comebacks than I am. Yesturday he called me a carrot shoving a s s pirate and I had nothing in return, so I had to smack him, but didn't hurt! Gah. I love that man.