there is this guy that i like and he likes me but i am haveing over for a family dinner and i dont know what i am going to do if everyone in my house gose and dose something very bad what should i do to make then not do something like that ?
2007-01-30 02:36:02 · 15 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why are you expecting the worse. You should be thinking positively. It could be worth it. Give it a try. Expect that your family will be polite and kind. Give them some credit.
2007-01-30 02:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sexie Gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you sweetie? If you are old enough to have a boyfriend, you should at least be in middle school. I would suggest that you work on your punctuation, grammar and spelling. That is way more important than impressing a boy.
2007-01-30 11:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is your family and cannot be changed. Let him see your true family, not on their "best" behavior. If he sticks around all the craziness (every family is crazy), then he's a keeper! Also, it's good to get a feel for what you fam thinks of him! I think it could be fun!
2007-01-30 10:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say something to your family before he comes over. Like “Please don’t embarrass me in front of this guy” and also “ Now a guest is coming to dinner so be on your best behavior like with any other guest.”
2007-01-30 11:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks their family is so embarrassing - Just tell your date about your family and tell your family how important this is to you. Enjoy and have fun no matter what!
2007-01-30 11:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him before he comes that your family is weird or whatever and that if anything happens that to go into your room s you can talk to your family alone and yell at them or whatever you want to do
2007-01-30 11:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell them that this is really important for you and maybe you could do a rehearsal dinner?
best of luck to you!
2007-01-30 10:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by babytiger3003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect your family to change. If he loves you your family should not matter.
2007-01-30 12:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pre warn him of the prospect information rather than surprise would help
2007-01-30 11:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by s2or3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and make them aware that you are paranoid...if they can to keep it under wraps(anything bad that is)...they should understand and comply!
2007-01-30 12:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋