II have always been this way but am scared to be with a woman. I am married, but men don't really excite me. My whole life, I have to fantasize about women to 'reach my peak.'
2007-01-30 02:34:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Clearest case of lesbianism I've ever seen!
However, I do wonder- you're married- are you in love with your husband? Does he sexually satisfy you? (It's okay- and good- if he does; you can still be a lesbian but have this relationship with your husband). If not, you might want to think about being honest with him and amicably parting ways.
As to being scared to be with a woman, it's just jitters. Don't force yourself to have a lesbian experience- wait until you find a girl you care about and the fear won't be there (nervousness, maybe, but when you're with someone you love and who loves you, there shouldn't be any fear).
Good luck!
2007-01-30 03:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny Im not gay but other women turn me on. I think a womans body is a beautiful thing. I can get off looking at women and by a womens touch. I had a girl touch me all over and I loved it but in the end I just wanted a man. You have some issues. Try having a three-som with your hursband and see who gives your more pleasure.
2007-01-30 11:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jamaica~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just because you fantasize about women does'nt make you gay. Just make you either bi or curious. I started out curious..skip being bi and came out fully. So I think it depends on what you want in your life. I love my men, but I'm most attracted to a woman.
2007-01-30 13:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by uniqueness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt presisely mean that you are a lesbian its just that seeing a penus is not a really nice thing to see but to picture women is somthing that you are used to. there might also be the reason that you would like to have the same sexual experiance that the women are having in the videos you are seein i say tell your husband waht to do and how to do it.
2007-01-30 10:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out if you like it is to try it. Trust me, once you are with a women you are going to love it...... You dont have to label yourself as gay, I would say you are just curious right now...
2007-01-30 10:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what the dictionary says.... and why are you asking a question you already know the answer to, are you in denial or trying to come to terms with it?
"homosexual or arousing homosexual desires "
"homosexual: someone who practices homosexuality; having a sexual attraction to persons of the same sex "
2007-01-30 10:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur gay. if u dont like guys sexually its no big deal. just love UR life. its ok to be gay im not gay but i feel bi sometimes, who knows i probably am but just make life life and i think u were brought up to like guys not girls but i really think u like girls. its ok it doesnt matter.
2007-01-30 10:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be gay.
2007-01-30 10:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by CL R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds like you're as gay as it gets.
2007-01-30 10:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parobaby gay, and don't listen to cosita she seems like she's in denial
2007-01-30 11:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by flamingbeans247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋