My boyfriend is in onther country, we have been togethering one year and half. We are talking everyday on the phone and We had many agurements too, since we stay in different country. He said I don't give him space and he consider to leaf me. I am so sad. I don't want him leaf me and I love him. I need some suggestions how to keep my boyfriend. I love hime so much.
2007-01-30 02:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you really want to know what i really think about that:
girl, you're just don't like to loose,you think that you love him ,how could you possibly love somebody who plans to leave you and says you don't give him space. you know it's on the beginning that you can see if a boy loves and wants you it's hard already because you and him aren't leaving in the same country for me it would be better if you break up with him but, if you really really love him if you're not just being selfish let me tell you what to do :
2007-01-30 05:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by BOOKEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships require hard work on BOTH ends...not just one. You can't keep this boat afloat yourself. These types of situations REQUIRE that you talk daily and reassure each other of your devotion. If he cannot do this, and thinks he needs "more space", then he's not cut out to make this work. No matter how much we care about someone and want them to stay with us, sometimes we have to let go and move on and do what's best for ourselves.
Besides, how much more "space" could the man want? Tell him if he's that worried about his precious "space" he can find another fricken planet to live on.
2007-01-30 12:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by hopek2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple someone has to move to others country to be together. Living apart doesn't make life easier for both. If he wants you then you have to solve together this problem.
2007-01-30 10:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nikos M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does "leaf you" mean? LEAVE you?? haha. Well anyway, if you aren't giving him enough space you are going to end up pushing him away instead of making him closer to you. so i would back off and give him space. if not you guys will break up.
2007-01-30 10:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in different country and he say "you no give me space" he love you not. Find nice boy in country you in and make sure your father say is good too.
2007-01-30 10:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you dont give him enough space.....if that's what he wants then give it to him and see if that doesnt help some....sacrifice is needed when you love someone because it's not healthy to want to be the other person's sole social world....let him have his space...and you take some of that time developing some of your own interests.....you will see that when you quit clutching how interested in you he will become
2007-01-30 10:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship is tough. i am facing the same situation as you. mine even have a jet set lives. travelling from my place to her place frequently and it still not enough.
2007-01-30 10:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep a man who doesn't want to be there. If he wants to leave let him and move on.
2007-01-30 10:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alisha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you love him
2007-01-30 12:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋