2007-01-30 02:23:35 · 33 answers · asked by lavkairey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why can't women stop talking abuot romance and flowers and shopping and clothing and makeup and boys and soap operas, and Opreah and their silly emotions and why can't we stop[ NAGGIN?????????????????
The reason men talk soooooo much about sex is because men are programed to want to have sex, and lots of it. (why you might ask..its a primal urge to reproduce as much as possible..we won't understand because we can only have one kid at a time)
So, lets turn the tables jsut a little...Wouldn't get just TOTALLY p*ssed if a man asked "Why can't women stop gossiping" Yeah, i think you would be LIVID!! (own it..i know you would)
So, let them talk about sex and GUY things and keep out of their convo's if it bothers you that much. Remember hun, you are NOT the center of the universe, and no one has to cater to your every need and want :)
2007-01-30 03:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is generally a maturity problem. There are a number of males that do not mature nearly as quickly as their female counterparts. The women are much more mature than the ladies for quite some time. I understand your aggravation. I see this problem with a number of people and I am a 50-ish male. My wife and I have been married for 31 years and I feel that she matured so much quicker than I did. I did not talk SEX the way that some did but I still had areas to mature in with my thinking after we were married. She was so understanding in those early years. She is the greatest woman in this world. I love her dearly. GOD certainly blessed me with her. Have a great day.
Eds
2007-01-30 02:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience, that when men talk about sex, it's the exact opposite of what they're saying.
ie..."I met this hot chick at the club last night. She and I went back to my place and had sex for 3 hours. She came 6 times and was begging for more when I had to tell her to leave. Man it was awesome."
literally translates into
"I was the last one at the bar and after 9 beers, I wanted to take this ugly woman home but she wouldn't have anything to do with me so I went home and masturbated wildly which took about 2 minutes then I passed out. I'm such a looser."
Men use bragging about sex, etc...to establish the social order among friends. Who's been laid the most, who has the biggest penis, who pleases their wife/girlfriend the most times in a row...all that establishes the "order" in the social scale.
keep this in mind men...
Nobody cares how big your penis is other than you.
2007-01-30 03:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first element i decide on to ask is when you're already having sex with him? Then i decide on to ask no matter if that is fulfilling your needs besides? yet to respond to your question... adult adult males not in any respect extremely outgrow the decide on or choose for that intimate connection. a lot of them misread sex for romance and not in any respect extremely study what authentic love is all about. when you're having sex with him, supply up for a month or 2 and do not clarify why. purely say not now, and do not tell him that is for some months in hardship-free words. If he's time-honored with of a time table he will purely wait it out till he receives what he needs. it really is the attempt for you of no matter if that is love or not. If he leaves you or fights about it, then it isn't love. If he cheats on then you definately absolutely not. yet when he continues to be worrying and loving for the era of this time body and nonetheless responsive on your needs then that is love and he's easily worth engaged on. After this attempt era, strengthen a planned interest record in which you may compromise your needs/needs for sex and his needs/needs for sex. do not supply in on your needs and needs purely to assuage him. regrettably, the talk will nonetheless be there except you tell him that that is bothering you. Then it is going to nonetheless be there purely not as a lot. Sorry i could not help better yet it really is the nature of issues.
2016-12-03 05:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you??You are obviously hanging around some very immature boy's because real men have a lot more to talk about then sex.
2007-01-30 03:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't always talk about sex.
Although sex is fun.
Sex is not the most important thing in life.
Sex is way up there though.
I could be answering questions or having sex , let's see. . . . . . .
What was the question?
2007-01-30 03:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so guy at the man factory had a lot of sex talk intermission laying around and they decide to just put them in men. so blame that guy at the guy factory for all the sex talk.
2007-01-30 02:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because for some reason men desire it more than woman. however i feel that total satifaction for her is very important not just my own. which makes it more meaning full for whom ever im with and my self. and i have never had that acusation. maybe your with the wrong guy. and he just doesnt pleasure u the way u need to be. if he did you wouldnt care how many times it was brought up.
2007-01-30 02:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men like sex. Simple as that.
2007-01-30 02:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can and don't go pretending that women don't talk or think about sex all the time too because we do!
2007-01-30 02:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋