even if in your heart you still loves him and don,t
want to let go after 8 years?
2007-01-30 02:20:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way to get over someone is go find another someone. The saying "To have loved and lost is better than to have never loved at all" is very true. I look back at all my heart aches and even though they didn't turn out as I had wanted them to (at the time), I would not go back (even if I could) and change any of them. In your life there will (probably) be lots of heart ache, but that's how we become the person we evidentially become, it make us stronger and wiser. And please believe me when I say SOMEONE IS OUT THERE, JUST WAITING FOR YOU...and when the time is right, you'll find each other and (hopefully) live happily ever after. So put your ex in a memory box, cause that's where he belongs now and continue on down that road of hopes and dreams.............the best is yet to come! :)
2007-01-30 02:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by 49erfan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a hobby or someone new to love. The heart may never forget, but that doesn't mean that you should put your life on hold emotionally. Cherish what you had and keep it locked in your heart. Tell yourself to move on and remember happy times.
2007-01-30 10:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 years is a long time to be togteher with someone so it is going to take some time to get over it.You have to accept the fact that it is over because you will not beable to move on until you come to terms with that.If you and your ex are on talking terms it may help if you can talk to him and settle whatever unresolved issues you may have if you can't talk to him then write a letter don't mail it just write it and get everything off your chest.Good luck to you.
2007-01-30 10:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You make an effort to do so... Stop the self-pity, and get on with your life. After 8 years? Phleese. Get a hobby...
2007-01-30 12:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to first accept it is over with, and he is not coming back. your in some kind of denial after this many years. therapy helps also. as long as u live in the past you won't be able to move into the future. we will always love our ex but at some point we have to move on, and want to be with others.
2007-01-30 10:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say tht things happen for a reason and that you will have to take this time and get to know yourself and try to move on. I know it is hard yes, but you will have to stop thinking about him and move on with life.
2007-01-30 10:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 years is a long time. Talk to your ex, and tell him how you feel, you probably just need some closure.
2007-01-30 10:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't. What is done is done I say. It's in the past. I try to remember the good times and I move on. Clinging to pain can ultimately destroy you or make you sinical.
2007-01-30 12:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't get emotional over my exes anymore. I'm married and happy - have got a great husband!
2007-01-30 10:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont really understand your question....it's hard to let people go but love isnt something that exists on the physical level only,..for instance when someone dies you still love them in your heart... in relationships you can love spiritually, physically, emotionally....there are many layers to love....so in essence you don't have to let go...just keep loving them in your heart and if they happen to be in your life then that is even better!!!
2007-01-30 10:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by bertha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋