This girl and i were working toward a relationship. Then she said she doesn't want to be pressured and said she's not ready but would tell me when she is. The other day asked her for her room # in the dorm so i could send her a valentines day card. She told me i don't need to. I asked why and she said cause you just don't. I was gonna ask her to be my valentine. Now i feel like heart broken, what does she mean?
2007-01-30 02:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by Q 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
This lady is not ready for a relationship. At least not with you right now. She let you down as easy as she possibly could. Accept and respect her wishes. In the meantime this gives you the opportunity to either move on and find another or you can sit and wait for this gal to make up her mind. The choice is yours.
2007-01-30 02:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, dear Q. Unfortunately she is not interested in you. She seems to be making it very clear, but you just aren't taking the hints. Move on. Don't waste any more time on her. She is going about everything in a childish manner. Why not find a girl that will appreciate you. She is only delaying the "relationship" issue to do her own thing. She sounds selfish and may be stringing you along. Take some time for you to mend your broken heart and then find a more worthy girl.
2007-01-30 10:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by mandermar40103 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I know what she means. But, I dod know if she is not ready for a realtionship, you can't push. It may be a good idea to give her some space. Why not try to go out with some other people for awhile. May be you will decide you like them better. In my opion your friends, and family are your Valentines, and God is your biggest Valentine. I hope you can feel special when you read this. Because, you are. Take care, and God bless.
2007-01-30 11:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by gemandsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a couple steps back, and wait and see.
Don't have any expectations from this girl though, I think she has already made it clear that she doesn't want any relationship right now.
sorry.
2007-01-30 10:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by goddess1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably has eyes for someone else. I'm sorry but it sounds like she is not interested in you the way you are in her. move on. I am sure there are plenty of girls out there that would appreciate you
2007-01-30 10:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready for a relationship with you. So, just sit back and wait.
2007-01-30 10:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just doesn't know how to tell you in a nice way that she isn't interested in you in that way anymore. I am sorry.
2007-01-30 11:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read, "She's Just Not That Into You", you might find a clue there.
2007-01-30 10:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by gtahvfaith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLOOOOO she not interested in period!!!!! Find someone else for sock there's a shoes
2007-01-30 12:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋