Is there a time when you feel its over and maybe the universe is sending us a message to leave this life?

Question

We all have reasons for holding on but if nothing ever changes and the only reason for being here is your kids and your not really able to care for them financially. When all roads have gone no where and there is no one left to turn too. There never really was. All men just want is to use you. Your kids have to see this and see your pain. What do you do?

Answer 1

I feel your frustration and I know what you are feeling. when I'm feeling like this I look at my kids face and thier smiles, and I know that everything will be OK. There are allot of resorces out there for you to use. there are churchs and other non profit orgs for you. They can help you in many ways. Good luck and hang in there, Just remember that every thing id only temporary and that everything happens for a reason. Something good will come of this trying time. And that is all this is is just another trying time.

Answer 2

I have agonized over this very question for some time now.. I have decided to go back to school and be the best person I can be and the rest will fall into place. Focus on yourself now, get some self-help books and when the time is right you will know what to do next.
Sometimes focusing on our partner's shortcomings is away to avoid our own.

Recommend readings:
Seat of the Soul
Codependent No More
When Life Changes or You Wished it did
If the Horse is Dead, Get Off
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

Answer 3

Keep your head up and fight the good fight. You are showing your kids work ethic, morals and intestinal fortitude. Someone needs to show them that perserverence pays off. I'm sure your kids look up to you like you're superwoman! Don't let them expect anything less. Best of luck!

Answer 4

Get a therapist. Or take up a hobby. You've got too much time on your hands.

Answer 5

no, don't give up