he's in love with me so much
i am sure if i told him right to his face that i dont want he'd die!
i dont just need some polite words
need a whole attitude, cant make it once at the time but needs time so he wouldnt get shocked at once
do u think it's wrong to leave someone so in love with u almost worship!
2007-01-30 01:57:29 · 6 answers · asked by i need some real answers! 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is better for him to know the truth now than later, if you don´t want this relationship tell him, for his own good.
2007-01-30 02:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by jotaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In situations like this, what are your options?
If you do not answer your phones or always make yourself busy, he’ll see the picture and depending on his character – become even more peeved and label you a fake or poser or doing the sensible thing and walk away, getting the hint and leaving the situation
If you tell him directly that you are not interested, he may also get angry and construe a whole bunch of theory that you should love him. Either that or he may accept begrudgingly that relationships do not always work out and fume for a few days.
It’s your choice.
2007-01-30 13:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by thinkpp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong? NO. It's not YOUR fault if that's what is worrying you. Maybe you can ease him down a little at a time. I understand why you don't want to shock him. You sound like the type of person that guys fall in love with, so that's probably one of the things he needs, your concern. Just let him down a little at a time. Maybe suggest you have an interest in other guys or other things? Let him down easy if that's your inclination. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-01-30 11:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be stronger than you think. Be polite, just say I think you are a nice person but I am not interested in entering a relationship with you in the way you want. There is a nice girl out there who will be perfect for you.
2007-01-30 10:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you can. It sounds like he is obsessed with you. It that is true, his obsession could turn deadly and you could find yourself in a world of terror and fear. He might stalk you at first, he may call your phone 20 times a day, and he may even get to the point that if he can't have you, no one else will. PLEASE be careful.
2007-01-30 10:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dorie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong telling someone what you really feel. be honest -- if you have to be brutally honest to make him realize you're not into him --- then go. there's no use staying with someone you're not in love with.
2007-01-30 11:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by schinina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋