I love my life, it's great, I love going out with my mates and stuff, and works brilliant, but I just love the idea of being a dad in happy family unit, is this weird for a guy to feel like this?
2007-01-30 01:18:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
will you marry me?
I would love to have a guy like that.
Thanks for letting me know there are still a few out there like you
2007-01-30 01:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you feel this way, will make you a really good husband and Dad. You seem very goal orinted regarding family. My husband and I got married when I was 19. My one friend from school he was anxious to get married and start a family. I am talking 6 kids or more. Not my cup of tea that many. But I love the two I have. My friend was male and was 18. So I think if it is in you and your family oriented it is very normal to feel that way. Goodluck with the family you are seeking!
2007-01-30 01:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all. I felt the same way and got married at 21 and have been very happy with my choice. To be happy in life it is best not to worry about what is "normal." Because you are able to recognize your true desires makes a lucky man, just follow your instincts and don't worry about what others say or do.
2007-01-30 01:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird. My husband and I talked about it a year before we we're married. He has said he's always wanted kids, and a little after 9 months, we had a boy. It's nice that you feel this way, you sound like your going to be a great dad.
2007-01-30 01:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweepit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not weird for you to feel this way.It sound's like you are mature and you know what you want in life.Being married and having children and family is a wonderful gift.You are at the perfect age to be getting married and starting a family.Now is the time for you to try and find your lifetime partner and settle down.Good Luck to you.
2007-01-30 01:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys around the age of thirty start feeling like settling down. There isn't anything weird about that. I think it's great! Good luck and I hope you get what you want!
2007-01-30 01:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal. Its programed in us to want to have children and pass on our heritage. I am married with 3 children. My oldest is 14 and youngest 3. We have good times and bad. I started my family at 19 so in my opinion your late.
2007-01-30 01:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by puppylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal. I don't think its weird. You have reached a point in your life that you are ready for a marriage and children. Be patient. Your time will come. Its hard work, but if its something that you truly want it is worth all the hard work!!
2007-01-30 01:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by ashleyjones21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not...
coz...
you are settle alrdy....
you know yourself and you r mature enough to raise and train your children in a good way... and you r ready to take responsibility as the head of the family...
you know how to manage the house...
you know how to disiplin your children....
you know how to spend your time w them n enjoy your children...
you know that you will not leave your family no matter what...
you know all these things... and you are ready!!
no prblm w money....
now...
no prblm w your mate?? I mean... you want her to be your children's mother?? are you sure bout this one? hv u picture her as the mother of them?
can she raise the childrn in a good way?
can she train her children to respect the father, loving God, having good manners, have a strong and good character???
are you sure that she can respect you as the husband, the head of the family?
if your answer is yes... i mean really yes....
not "weak" yes or may be...
than you are ready to marry and have your own family...
but if your answer to these question is still maybe or you r not sure bout them....
pls...
equip yourself and your mate...
sit down and talk about these things...
you dont want your marriage fail, right??
have you seen people who were in love... married, but divorced??
have you ever questioned those things?
i mean... what happen with them??
love and money only are not enough??
you are like everybody else....
but you can make the difference...
equip yourself...
be fully armed for the situation that you are going to be in...
make strategy...
ask the couple whose marriage is more than 30 years old.....
ask the secret...
ask the formula...
ask also the ones who got divorced...
where was their passion and love??
did they chose the right person??
ask also the children whose parents divorced...
ask them their true feeling...
did they hope they could do something to prevent it?
man... i have to tell you something....
to be involved with somebody is just a preparation...
old people in indonesia (I am an indonesian) said that when you got married...your life has just started....
your true love will be tested...
it will be through fire....
not only one time......
but everytime!!!!!
really... everytime!!!!
does it stand forever??
or it just shallow love??
it is applied to your future wife as well....
:)
i am sorry to tell you this beforehand.....
sometimes, i just wondered....
why we always have fantacy like the fairytales??
".....and they live happily ever after...."
i tell you the truth....
there is no life like that.... while you r living here in this earth!!
why dont we just open our eyes to see the fact??
pls.... read the newspaper...
read the marriage and the divorce survey
face the fact!!!
read the cry of the children of those whose divorced!!
ask them!!
some regretted that they were born!!!
they had misery life....
young man....
i have to tell you this..
coz i ve seen it happened again and again
again and again...........
again and again.......
be clever!!!
plan your life....
choose the best!!
be fully armed!!!
both of you...
for the sake of your life and
THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILDREN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
be a wise, loving, caring and dependable husband and father!!
dont just follow your feeling and money!!
be a wise and submit wife....
loving and caring mother.........
dont learn later when it is too late....
learn now and be ready to face the battle!!
gud luck!
2007-01-30 02:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by citra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal , I have 4 sons and they each couldnt wait to have ramilys or there own , and they have , they love their children , and you know what their father didnt give a darn about them . They are wonderful fathers . Good Luck
2007-01-30 01:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by janice a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that. As long as you are sure that is what you want. If in 10 years you want the single life and freedom you may wish you'd waited. When you have children your life isnt your own.
2007-01-30 01:23:52 · answer #11 · answered by uk.housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋